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Don’t Confuse Getting Away With It for Being Healthy

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Don’t Confuse Getting Away With It for Being Healthy

By Jon Stone | Iron Resilience

I’m not here to sugarcoat anything.

I vape. I use weed. I eat processed meat. I drink caffeine.
I’m not claiming any of that is healthy—but I don’t lie to myself about it either.
I own my vices. I own my choices. I take the hit and I keep moving forward.

What I won’t do is let this clown world pretend that obesity is healthy.
That sugar addiction is “just another lifestyle.”
That confidence can replace competence.

I’ve been obese—twice.
Once as a fat kid who got bullied and lived in shame.
Once as a grown man who slipped into weakness, comfort, and darkness.

276 pounds. Over 40% body fat.
Scared to swim. Scared to train. Scared to face myself.

But I did face myself. And now I live on the other side of that hell.

This fake freedom people talk about?
It’s an illusion.

How free are you if from age 5 to 18 you’re stuck in school,
Then pay out of pocket or through your parents for 2–4 more years of “education”
Just to get a 40+ hour/week job where you’re told when to eat, piss, and speak,
Where most people are just lucky to survive, drowning in debt from houses, cars, and bills?

And even then—if you do land a job—it might go to a diversity hire,
Or someone overseas who costs 1% as much.
And you’re expected to shut your mouth, smile, and play along
While mainstream media and fake experts dictate your thoughts.

Say the wrong thing? You’re censored, canceled, fired.
Vote? Sure. Between two handpicked puppets who both serve the same machine.
Democracy? More like two wolves and a sheep deciding what’s for dinner.

Meanwhile, the food you’re offered is trash.
High-carb, high-sugar, low-protein processed garbage.
Cheap meals, fake meat, fake health, fake freedom.
And when your body breaks down, they don’t fix it—they drug it.
More pills. More vaccines. More distractions.
More addiction to gaming, porn, social media, and dopamine.

And money? Not even real anymore.
Fiat currency backed by nothing, going digital so they can switch you off with one click.
You need a passport to travel. A license to drive. A permit to build. A mask to breathe.
You pay taxes, obey laws you didn’t write, and bow to speech codes enforced by people you’ll never meet.

That’s not freedom. That’s a padded cage.

Just Because You Can Eat It Doesn’t Mean It Works

People love to point at some jacked guy eating Pop-Tarts and say, “See? Carbs are fine!”
What they don’t tell you is:

  • That guy’s on gear.
  • That guy’s training like a savage.
  • That guy’s a genetic freak who could outlift you on pizza and beer.

You are not that guy. Neither am I.

Even with “clean carbs” like rice or oats, the question isn’t “Can I get away with this?”
It’s “Is this helping me dominate my goals?”

If the answer is no, then it’s weakness.
Disguised as balance.

You want fat loss? Mental clarity? Hunger control? Discipline?
You go very low carb.
You go high protein, high fat.
You go ketogenic. War mode.

Because keto isn’t just for sedentary dieters—it’s for warriors.
Keto athletes exist. They’re breaking records.
Outperforming sugar-junkies on half the fuel.
Because fat-fueled means focused. Fat-fueled means hard to kill.

I’m Not Here for Usain Bolt or Arnold

I’m here for the man working 10-hour shifts.
The man who’s fallen off and needs to claw his way back.
I’m not training Olympians. I’m training you.

You—the man who wants out of the herd.

Herd behavior is drive-thru dinners and cereal for breakfast.
Energy drinks. Candy. Weakness. Excuses.

You want to stand out? Live different. Eat different. Train different.

My Life? It’s Not Pretty. It’s Powerful.

I average 30,000 steps a day.
I train 7 days a week. Rain, shine, pre-work, post-work, doesn’t matter.

Sessions are 45 to 75 minutes of pain—weights, cardio, masochism.
I don’t train for fun. I train to dominate.

I run a 500 to 1,000+ calorie deficit daily—even when I binge.
If I slip, I punish myself. Fasted training. Fasting. Mental resets.

I fall. I bleed. I adapt.
I don’t stay down.

That’s the Iron Resilience Way.
No excuses. No crying. Just cold truth and hard action.

You want comfort? Stay soft.
You want freedom? Start suffering.
Because real freedom doesn’t come from voting, carbs, or Netflix.
It comes from mastering your body, your mind, and your pain.

Resilience is forged in fire.
And I’m still burning.

Jon Stone
Founder: https://ironresilience.net
Discipline, Not Genetics

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Disclaimer:
I do not promote violence, extremism, terrorism, crime, or hate.
This is social commentary—raw, personal, and based on lived experience.
It’s about discipline, self-reliance, and rejecting the excuses that keep you weak.

Why People Give Me Advice at the Gym—Even When I’m 205 lbs with Abs

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Why People Give Me Advice at the Gym—Even When I’m 205 lbs with Abs

By Jon Stone | Iron Resilience

You ever notice how the most out-of-shape guys are the first to dish out training and diet advice?

You’re mid-set, headphones in, sweat dripping, muscles pumped. You’re 205 pounds with abs. Disciplined. Dialed in. Focused. And here comes some guy with a soft belly and soft mind telling you what he thinks you should be doing.

Why does this happen?

Because discipline exposes weakness.

Most people don’t want to get better—they want to feel better about not getting better. When they see someone like you—no shortcuts, no excuses, no fads—your results remind them of what they’ve been avoiding: pain, effort, structure, consistency.

So they project.
They advise.
They critique.
They poke holes in your routine, your diet, your methods—not because they want to help, but because they need to protect their ego.

It’s not about you.
It’s about them.

You’re a walking contradiction to their excuses.

You didn’t crash diet or hop on some influencer’s plan. You carved it out over years. You eat steak and eggs while they chase macro-balanced smoothies. You train like a masochist while they scroll through mobility reels. You walk 26,000 steps a day and lift like it matters. You live it.

And that terrifies people who only talk about it.

When you walk into a gym with purpose, the room shifts. People notice. Not just the results—but the energy. The no-bullshit presence. The eyes that say: I came here to suffer. That level of intensity reveals the frauds. It makes them uncomfortable.

So they try to shrink you back down.
With words.
With “tips.”
With passive-aggressive comments.

Let them.

You’re not here to be liked.
You’re here to be forged.

This is Iron Resilience.
Not plastic approval.
Not rubber-band advice.
Iron. Unbending. Unshaken.

And when someone smaller, softer, or lazier comes up to give you “advice,” just remember:
You’ve already won.
They just haven’t figured it out yet.

Is Peanut Butter Good for Cutting Weight?

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Is Peanut Butter Good for Cutting Weight?

By Jon Stone | Iron Resilience

Peanut butter is one of those foods that gets thrown around in cutting diets like it’s a magic bullet. Some claim it keeps you full, others act like it’s diet kryptonite. The truth, as always, lies in discipline, intent, and how dialed in your protocol is.

Peanut Butter: The Good, the Bad, and the Fat

The Pros:

  • High in fat, moderate in protein
  • Low in carbs (if you buy natural, no-sugar versions)
  • Decent micronutrient profile—magnesium, potassium, vitamin E
  • Helps kill cravings if used tactically

The Cons:

  • Extremely calorie-dense: 2 tablespoons = ~200 calories
  • Low protein-to-calorie ratio—not ideal for muscle retention during a deficit
  • Easy to overeat, especially when you’re deep in a cut
  • Many commercial versions are filled with sugar and trash oils

For the average guy? Peanut butter is fine in moderation.
For a serious cut? It’s a side character—not the hero.

Iron Resilience Protocol Reality Check

I’m on an extreme cut right now. I’m maintaining 250g of protein and 180–200g of fat per day while creating a 5,000-calorie daily deficit. I’m walking over 25,000 steps a day, training with high output, and my food is weighed, tracked, and planned with intent.

Peanut butter might make an appearance—but it doesn’t lead the charge. Steak, eggs, Greek yogurt, ground beef, sausages, and custom keto desserts get the job done better.

That said, for taste and variety, I built a few spreads that hit my macros clean.

High-Protein Peanut Butter-Style Spread

Macros (per 50g):
300 calories
20g protein
24g fat
3g net carbs

Ingredients:

  • 2 tbsp natural peanut butter (32g)
  • 1 scoop whey isolate (~30g)
  • 1 tbsp melted margarine or coconut oil (15g)
  • 1–2 tbsp unsweetened almond milk
  • Dash of salt and cinnamon (optional)
  • Stevia or erythritol to taste

Instructions:

  1. Mix peanut butter and melted margarine.
  2. Stir in whey isolate slowly.
  3. Add almond milk for texture.
  4. Season to taste.
  5. Store in fridge up to 5 days.

Use it on keto pancakes, with eggs, or frozen into molds for a fat bomb boost.

Zero-Peanut Butter Anabolic Keto Spread

Macros (per 50g):
~280 calories
~25g protein
~21g fat
1–2g net carbs

Ingredients:

  • 1 scoop whey isolate (30g)
  • 1 tbsp margarine or coconut oil
  • 2 tbsp Greek yogurt or cottage cheese
  • 1–2 tbsp almond milk
  • Salt, sweetener, and cinnamon (optional)

Instructions:

  1. Melt margarine and mix with yogurt or cottage cheese.
  2. Add whey isolate and almond milk—stir until creamy.
  3. Sweeten and spice to taste.
  4. Chill and store cold.

This is a clean fat-and-protein bomb that fits any deep cut. Add flaxseed, crushed nuts, or cocoa powder to customize the flavor without wrecking your deficit.

Final Word

Peanut butter isn’t evil. But it’s not a cornerstone food during a serious cut.
If you’re the type of man who’s cutting on war footing—no cheat meals, no margin for error—then peanut butter is just another tool. Respect the macros, weigh every gram, and don’t lie to yourself about portion size.

You want results? Then treat every bite like it’s part of a mission.
Track it. Earn it. Dominate the day.

Stay hard. Stay disciplined.
—Jon Stone | Iron Resilience

Why You Shouldn’t Take Fitness Advice from Obese People

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Why You Shouldn’t Take Fitness Advice from Obese People

by Jon Stone | Iron Resilience

We live in strange times. Overweight people hand out diet tips to shredded lifters. Obese keyboard warriors play coach to men with abs, grit, and results. People who haven’t seen their jawline in years crown themselves “fitness experts.”

Here’s the hard truth:
If you’re healthy, disciplined, or already walking the walk—you don’t owe these people your attention.

The Body Doesn’t Lie

You wouldn’t take money advice from someone broke. You wouldn’t learn mental toughness from someone who gave up.

So why take health advice from someone who doesn’t follow their own?

Words are cheap. Results are real.
You can talk about macros and workouts all day—but if you’re not living it, you’re not qualified to teach it. Plain and simple.

In this world, the only thing that earns respect is proof. Not opinions, not intentions. Your body is the evidence. Your routine is the resume. You either show up or you don’t.

Why Do Obese People Give Fitness Advice?

1. Ego Protection

Giving advice helps them feel involved in the fitness world without doing the hard part. It’s roleplay. Makes the ego feel safe while the body stays soft.

2. Fantasy Coaching

They live online, watching YouTube and reading Reddit—thinking that makes them a coach. But knowing theory and living it are two different things.

3. Backwards Culture

We flipped the script. Now, telling someone to earn respect through discipline is called toxic, and making excuses is called brave. That’s not strength. That’s cowardice dressed as kindness.

Are There Exceptions?

Sure—but don’t get it twisted.

Respect the message, but always verify the messenger.
If someone’s not applying the advice and not getting results, why would you listen? Especially if you’re already healthier than them?

The body doesn’t lie. Results are the only credential that matters.

Backed by Science: Not Just Opinion

Here’s what the research says:

  • Appearance Affects Credibility:
    People trust diet advice more from professionals who look fit.
    Source: The Guardian
  • Many Obese People Misjudge Their Health:
    Almost half of overweight women think they’re in “good health” despite the risks.
    Study Link
  • Knowing Isn’t Doing:
    Just because someone knows they’re overweight doesn’t mean they’re doing anything about it.
    Study Link
  • People Follow Advice When It Matches the Messenger:
    Patients take advice more seriously when it comes from someone who actually lives it.
    Study Link
  • Bias Toward Fit Coaches Isn’t Just Prejudice—It’s Pattern Recognition:
    Obese people are seen as lacking discipline for a reason—it’s often true.
    Study Link

Final Word

Look—this isn’t about shaming. It’s about standards.

You don’t need to take advice from someone whose results don’t back it up. Respect the grind. Ignore the noise.

And remember:

  • Your body is your proof.
  • Your output is your voice.
  • Lead by example—stay lean, stay locked in, stay unshakable.

— Jon Stone
Iron Resilience

Why I Chose Keto—and Why Sugar Addicts Hate That

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Why I Chose Keto—and Why Sugar Addicts Hate That

I’m not an elite endurance athlete, but I walk 17–20 miles daily and train 45–75 minutes a day. Before eliminating processed carbs and sugars, I struggled with hypoglycemia, mood swings, and energy crashes. Transitioning to a ketogenic diet was transformative for me.

Plenty of serious endurance athletes thrive on low-carb and keto approaches. Ultra-endurance runner Zach Bitter broke the 100-mile world record on a ketogenic diet. Elite Ironman triathletes like Dr. Dan Plews use low-carb strategies to optimize fat metabolism and endurance. It’s not just about performance—it’s about longevity, hormone stability, and mental clarity.

Sugar Is Not Fuel. It’s a Metabolic Wrecking Ball.

Let’s be real: processed sugar isn’t fuel—it’s biochemical sabotage. According to Dr. Robert Lustig at UCSF, added sugar (especially in liquid form like soda and energy drinks) is “toxic,” contributing to insulin resistance, obesity, and non-alcoholic fatty liver disease. [UCSF Source]

A 2023 BMJ meta-review found strong evidence linking sugar intake to increased risks of type 2 diabetes, cardiovascular disease, and depression. [BMJ Review, 2023]

Sugary Drinks: Liquid Fat Storage

Drinking calories is one of the fastest ways to ruin metabolic health. Sugary drinks like soda, “sports drinks,” and sweetened teas bypass satiety signals and spike insulin violently. Harvard researchers found that people who consume sugary beverages daily have a 26% higher risk of developing type 2 diabetes. [Harvard School of Public Health]

White Bread and Sugary Cereals: Modern Man’s Junk Fuel

White bread and cereals are marketed as staples but are actually ultra-processed, insulin-spiking garbage. Stripped of fiber, minerals, and protein, they act just like sugar in the bloodstream. A study in Diabetes Care showed that high glycemic foods like white bread increase insulin resistance and inflammation. [Diabetes Care, 2002]

Cereals marketed to children contain more sugar per serving than cookies. The Environmental Working Group found that some “healthy” cereals are over 50% sugar by weight. [EWG Report, 2014]

Weston A. Price Warned Us Nearly 100 Years Ago

In his foundational work Nutrition and Physical Degeneration, Dr. Weston A. Price documented how traditional, ancestral diets built strong bodies and minds—while refined sugar and white flour triggered rapid physical decay. He observed widespread dental deformities, bone narrowing, and behavioral issues appearing within a single generation when indigenous tribes switched to white bread, jam, canned goods, and sugar. [Weston A. Price Foundation]

The modern diet is not built for strength—it’s built for profit. It hijacks your dopamine, spikes your insulin, weakens your bones, and burns out your endocrine system. That’s the truth they don’t want you to hear.

The Keto Difference

If you burn 6,000 calories a day, sure—maybe you can get away with sugar and lard. But for the average guy trying to lose fat, build muscle, and protect his testosterone? High-carb diets are a hormonal trap. I lived it. I crashed hard on a grain-based diet. I leveled up on keto.

I’m not here to argue. I’m here to live. Want more? Read the work. Follow the mindset. Or don’t. I really don’t care either way.


Jon Stone
Founder, ironresilience.net
Discipline, Not Genetics

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No Playbook for Chaos: 10 Principles for Navigating the Modern Dating Game

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No Playbook for Chaos: 10 Principles for Navigating the Modern Dating Game

by Jon Stone

Better men than me tried to write the playbook. They ran the numbers, broke it down, studied female psychology like it was some kind of formula. But here’s what you find out the hard way — there is no playbook. Not for chaos. Not for mood swings. Not for the girl who invites you over, books the hotel herself, and cancels five minutes before you’re supposed to walk in.

You can waste years trying to decode something that’s not built on logic — or you can keep these 10 principles in your back pocket and stop letting it throw you off center.

  1. Don’t Try to Make Sense of It
    She wanted it. She planned it. Then she flaked. Why? Doesn’t matter. Most of what happens in dating isn’t logical, it’s emotional. If you’re chasing logic, you’re always going to be behind.
  2. The Vibe Is Everything
    It’s not about what you’ve done. It’s about how you make her feel in that moment. If she’s horny and you’re talking about cuddles, you lose. If she wants to feel safe and you bring full aggression, you lose. Presence matters more than performance.
  3. There Is No Script
    You’re not running lines, you’re responding to the moment. Every situation is unique. Trying to copy and paste someone else’s method will only make you stiff and predictable. Drop the tactics and move like a man who’s been there before.
  4. Female Desire Is Situational
    Same girl, different day — different outcome. You could do everything ‘right’ and still get ghosted. You could show up lazy and still get laid. Don’t take any of it personally, just stay consistent with who you are.
  5. Redpill Is a Tool, Not a Religion
    Use the awareness, but don’t let it turn you bitter. Some girls actually like you. If you try to ‘alpha’ a girl who’s already down for you, you’ll kill the spark. Stay sharp, but don’t turn everything into a test.
  6. Stop With the Pedestals
    She’s not better than you. She’s not a devil either. She’s just a person — instincts, moods, insecurities and all. If you keep putting girls in boxes, you’re never going to see them for what they are.
  7. Treat Whores Like Queens, and Queens Like Whores
    Not because you’re playing games, but because you’re flipping expectations. The ‘good girl’ act is often a front. The wild one might have the most loyalty. Show value where it’s not expected. Withhold it where it’s assumed.
  8. Mission First, Always
    Once she becomes your main focus, she loses respect. Women want to join your story, not become the plot. Stay moving. Stay building. If she wants in, great. If not, keep walking.
  9. Be the Order in the Chaos
    She’ll throw emotional tests. She’ll contradict herself. She might even ghost you for a week and come back like nothing happened. Your job isn’t to chase or correct — it’s to stay grounded. Be the calm presence she can feel, not the reactive one she controls.
  10. Transcend the Game
    Most guys are trying to win women. You should be trying to win you. Strength, discipline, clarity — that’s the real flex. Women will come and go. Your legacy doesn’t.

Iron Resilience means you don’t need a script. You are the script. And it’s written in blood, sweat, and repetition — not fantasies.

Jon Stone
Founder, ironresilience.net
Discipline, Not Genetics

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