The Standard American Diet vs. Iron Resilience: A Data-Driven Comparison

The Standard American Diet vs. Iron Resilience: A Data-Driven Comparison

By Jon Stone | Iron Resilience

The Standard American Diet (SAD) isn’t just unhealthy—it’s anti-performance. Its effects on health, physique, and discipline are measurable, well-documented, and directly opposed to the Iron Resilience way of eating and training. Here’s a fact-based comparison of SAD versus the Iron Resilience protocol during a structured cutting phase.

1. Daily Caloric Intake & Macros

Category Standard American Diet (SAD) Iron Resilience Protocol (High-Intensity Day)
Calories/day ~2,700 kcal (USDA average) ~3,681 kcal
Protein ~70g/day (12–15%) 302g/day (33%)
Fat ~115g/day (35–40%) 252g/day (62%)
Carbohydrates ~340g/day (50–60%) 43g/day (mostly fiber and dairy sugar) (5%)
Caloric Deficit Often in surplus 500–1,000 kcal deficit with strategic refeeds

SAD Insight: The average American diet is carbohydrate-heavy with moderate fat and low protein, contributing to metabolic dysfunction and excess fat storage.
Iron Resilience: Prioritizes very high protein to preserve and build lean mass, very high fat to support hormonal health and energy, and very low carbs to promote fat oxidation. Despite higher calories, a controlled deficit is maintained by elevated energy expenditure.

2. Food Sources

Typical Iron Resilience Foods Include:

  • Pork (large fried pork chops, ground pork, pork fat, pork rinds)
  • Chicken (all parts, especially skin-on, bone-in)
  • Seafood (shrimp, trout, salmon)
  • Organ meats (calf liver)
  • Bacon, sausages, hot dogs, pepperoni sticks, hamburger patties
  • Dairy (cheese, Greek yogurt)
  • Nuts (almonds)
  • Vegetables (spinach, bell peppers, onions, avocados)
  • Coffee
  • Cooking fats like butter and animal fat

Breakfast Example:
Whey protein, Greek yogurt, natural peanut butter, ground flaxseed, almond milk, Himalayan pink salt

Lunch Example:
375g chicken breast (skin and bone-in)

3. Physical Activity & Energy Output

Category Standard American Male Iron Resilience Protocol (High-Intensity Day)
Steps/day ~5,000 (NIH average) 35,000 steps
Training Low intensity or inconsistent 1 hour of weightlifting and core training
Deficit Caloric surplus or maintenance 500–1,000 kcal deficit (with periodic refeeds)

SAD Impact: Most adults fail to meet minimum physical activity recommendations, contributing to chronic disease.
Iron Resilience: Combines high daily steps with focused resistance training for optimal fat loss and muscle retention.

4. Summary

The Standard American Diet supports excess fat gain, insulin resistance, and poor body composition due to high carbs, low protein, and low activity.

The Iron Resilience protocol counters this with:

  • Very high protein intake (over 300g/day) to maintain and grow muscle.
  • High fat consumption (over 250g/day) for sustained energy and hormonal health.
  • Low carbohydrate intake (~40g/day), mostly from fiber and dairy sugar.
  • High physical activity (35,000 steps and 1+ hour lifting) to create a moderate caloric deficit (500–1,000 kcal/day) with planned refeeds to maintain metabolism.

This approach maximizes lean mass retention while aggressively reducing fat, all backed by nutrition science and real-world experience.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

Q: Is the Iron Resilience protocol a ketogenic diet?

A: Yes. It’s a targeted ketogenic diet designed to keep carbohydrate intake very low—around 40 to 50 grams per day—primarily from fibrous vegetables and dairy. The diet is high in fat (over 250 grams daily) from animal fats, nuts, butter, and cooking fats, which provides the main energy source. Protein intake is very high (300+ grams daily) to preserve and build muscle during a cutting phase with intense training. This combination supports fat burning and muscle retention while maintaining energy and performance.

Q: How does the Iron Resilience diet differ from the Standard American Diet?

A: The typical American diet is high in carbohydrates (around 340 grams per day), moderate in fat, and low in protein. This leads to excess fat gain and poor metabolic health. Iron Resilience flips this by prioritizing high protein, high fat, and very low carbs, paired with high physical activity to create a controlled calorie deficit and optimize body composition.

Q: What kind of foods do you eat on the Iron Resilience protocol?

A: Foods focus heavily on animal proteins and fats such as pork chops, chicken (all parts), seafood (shrimp, trout, salmon), organ meats (calf liver), bacon, sausages, cheese, and eggs. Vegetables like spinach, bell peppers, onions, and avocado provide fiber and micronutrients. Cooking fats include butter and animal fat. Coffee and nuts are also part of the diet.

Q: What does a typical high-intensity day look like?

A: An example high-intensity day involves:

  • 3,681 calories consisting of 302g protein, 252g fat, and 43g carbohydrates.
  • 35,000 steps of walking or movement.
  • 1 hour of weightlifting and core training.
  • A caloric deficit of 500 to 1,000 calories, depending on the day, with strategic refeed days to maintain metabolic health.

Build your body like it’s your last chance. Because it is.
Iron Resilience isn’t just a diet. It’s a declaration.


Jon Stone
Founder, ironresilience.net
Discipline, Not Genetics

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The Missing Links to Peak Health and Anti-Aging

The Missing Links to Peak Health and Anti-Aging

By Jon Stone | Iron Resilience

Most people chasing “health” or “fitness” don’t realize they’re doing it with a half-empty toolkit. They track macros, go to the gym, maybe even fast—but they’re still inflamed, tired, low-testosterone, and biologically aging fast.

This is Iron Resilience. We train hard, eat harder, and live disciplined—but we also go deeper. We optimize every system in the body to build aesthetics, strength, endurance, and longevity—without excuses, without substances, without weakness.

Here’s what you need for true peak health and to reverse aging from the inside out.


WATER, ELECTROLYTES & FIBER: THE FOUNDATION

Daily Targets for Bodybuilders:

  • Water: 3.5–5+ liters/day. More if you sweat. No exceptions.
  • Sodium: 4,000–6,000 mg/day or more. Especially on keto.
  • Potassium: 3,500–5,000 mg/day. Use potassium salt or avocado and leafy greens.
  • Magnesium: 400–600 mg/day. Glycinate or citrate at night.
  • Fiber: 15–30g/day. From flaxseed, greens, and cruciferous veg. Don’t wreck your gut.

Hydration is not about sipping water—it’s about retaining it with sodium and potassium. Cramping, fatigue, or brain fog? You’re low. Fix it or suffer.


THE MICRONUTRIENTS THAT MATTER

You train like a beast, so fuel like a machine. Here’s what your body needs beyond protein and fats:

  • Magnesium: Sleep, muscle recovery, ATP.
  • Zinc: Testosterone, immunity, anabolic drive.
  • Vitamin D3 + K2: Bone, mood, hormone health.
  • Potassium & Sodium: Pumps, hydration, muscle contraction.
  • Calcium: Muscle firing, bone strength.
  • B-Vitamins (B6, B12, Folate): Energy, red blood cells.
  • Selenium & Iodine: Thyroid function.
  • Chromium & Vanadium: Bonus for keto lifters—blood sugar control.

BEYOND THE BASICS: DEEP OPTIMIZATION

1. Mitochondrial Power = Energy + Longevity

  • Train hard (especially HIIT and fasted cardio).
  • Supplement CoQ10 and PQQ if depleted.
  • Use cold exposure and walk fasted to trigger mitochondrial biogenesis.

2. Autophagy: Clean the System

  • Fast daily. OMAD or 18:6 windows.
  • Train fasted and hard.
  • Consider berberine or spermidine for deep cellular cleanup.

3. Inflammation Control

  • Cut seed oils and processed carbs.
  • Load up on omega-3s, turmeric, ginger.
  • Train, walk, sleep, and stay calm under fire.

4. Natural Testosterone & Growth Hormone Boost

  • Deep sleep + heavy lifting = highest test.
  • Ashwagandha, zinc, sunlight, cold exposure.
  • Have sex, not smut. Stay off the hub. Focus your energy.

5. Collagen and Skin Health

  • Collagen + vitamin C daily.
  • Bone broth, sardines, gelatin.
  • Red light therapy if available.

6. Gut Health

  • Add fermented foods: kefir, sauerkraut, unsweetened yogurt.
  • Use ACV or enzymes if digestion lags.
  • Avoid zero-cal sweeteners that nuke your microbiome.

7. Liver Support

  • Eat liver or egg yolks for choline.
  • Use milk thistle or TUDCA if overloading your system.
  • Sweat daily. Train, sauna, or hot showers.

8. DNA Repair and Glycation Control

  • NAC, alpha-lipoic acid, and resveratrol (optional).
  • Keep blood sugar low and stable.
  • Avoid charred meats and artificial junk.

THE UNSPOKEN FACTORS THAT MAKE OR BREAK YOU

  • Sleep: 7–9 hours. Magnesium + indica before bed. Cold room. No screens.
  • Sunlight: Every morning. Set circadian rhythm. Boost testosterone.
  • Teeth and gums: Floss like it’s life or death—because it is.
  • Posture, mobility, and joint health: Don’t lift like a beast if you can’t move like a man.
  • Mental resilience: Music, solitude, mission. No victim talk. No dopamine chasing.

CONCLUSION: LIVE LIKE A KING, TRAIN LIKE A WOLF

Peak health isn’t about hacks. It’s about discipline, awareness, and ruthless consistency.

If you’re walking 30,000 steps, lifting heavy, fasting, eating primal, and optimizing these systems—you’re not aging. You’re evolving.

That’s Iron Resilience: built from the ground up, from cells to soul.

Jon Stone
Iron Resilience
Train. Build. Dominate.

Quick and Dirty Guide to Macros

Quick and Dirty Guide to Macros

Remember these formulas:

Option 1 (High Carb):

  • Carbohydrates = 1.5 × bodyweight (in pounds) → grams per day
  • Protein = 1 × bodyweight → grams per day
  • Fill the remaining calories with fat

Option 2 (Keto):

  • Protein = 1 × bodyweight → grams per day
  • Fat = 1 × bodyweight → grams per day
  • Carbohydrates = Under 30g per day

Examples (200 lb person):

Keto Approach:

  • Protein: 200g
  • Fat: 200g
  • Carbs: Under 30g

Higher-Carb Approach:

  • Carbs: 300g (1.5 × 200)
  • Protein: 200g
  • Fat: Adjust based on total calorie needs

This version works better for low to moderate fat intake with moderate to high carbs.

Key Points:

  • Protein comes first. Always hit your protein target before worrying about anything else.
  • Pair protein with carbs or fats for proper absorption. Example meals:
    • Yogurt, oats, and whey
    • Banana with peanut butter
  • Space meals or snacks 4–6 hours apart.
  • Count calories, but prioritize protein. Once protein is locked in, fats and carbs can be adjusted based on energy needs and your goal (cut, bulk, recomp).

On Fasting:

Fasting works best for fat loss in obese, sedentary individuals. It’s not ideal for lean, active people trying to train hard. You can’t fast 16–20 hours a day and expect optimal performance unless you’re cramming in 3,000–4,000 calorie meals—which defeats the point. Fasting isn’t sustainable for performance-focused lifestyles. Use it sparingly, if at all.


Jon Stone
Founder, ironresilience.net
Discipline, Not Genetics

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Training Log – Wednesday, May 21, 2025

Training Log – Wednesday, May 21, 2025

Overview

I trained for 80 minutes today. Everything was rest-pause style, kept the intensity high. Walked to the gym (45 minutes), trained, then walked to work.


Session Details

  • Style: Rest-pause throughout
  • Focus: Legs + Core
  • Cardio: 30 minutes stationary bike post-workout
  • Condition: Low-carb, fully keto-adapted

Workout Summary

  • Barbell Squat
    4 sets × 2–15 reps
    Top set: 15 reps at a high load
  • Dumbbell Step-Ups
    3 sets × 3–6 reps each leg
  • Dumbbell Romanian Deadlift
    3 sets × 8–12 reps
  • Barbell Calf Raise
    3 sets × 12 reps
  • Leg Extension Machine
    4 sets × 12 reps
  • Seated Leg Curl Machine
    4 sets × 6–15 reps
    Top set: 6 reps at a heavy load
  • Hanging Leg Raise
    3 sets × 30 reps
  • Weighted Plank
    1 set × 1:06 duration
  • Weighted Crunch
    1 set × 40 reps
  • Stationary Bike
    30:00 steady-state

Nutrition

Estimated Intake:

  • Calories: ~4000 kcal
  • Protein: ~360g
  • Fat: ~328g
  • Carbohydrates: ~36g (trace)

Food Sources:

  • Pork roast, ground beef, bacon
  • Chicken thighs, pork chops, steak
  • Cheese, Greek yogurt, whey isolate
  • Sausages, cottage cheese
  • Avocado, almond milk, margarine
  • Pecans, flaxseed
  • Spinach, broccoli, bell peppers, onions
  • Keto desserts (homemade)

Reflection

The output was high, and recovery has been solid. With this kind of intake and training volume, body composition keeps shifting in the right direction. Enough protein to support muscle. Enough fat to stabilize hormones. Carbs low enough to stay fat-adapted and lean.

Nothing needs changing yet. But I’ll adjust if needed:

  • If fat loss stalls, I’ll trim fats slightly
  • If performance drops, I’ll add a small clean refeed
  • If sleep gets choppy, I’ll look at timing and micronutrients

Jon Stone
Founder, ironresilience.net
Discipline, Not Genetics

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How to Be Attractive to Women

How to Be Attractive to Women

By Jon Stone | Iron Resilience

Attraction isn’t a game. It’s not some trick. You don’t win it by pretending to be someone else. You become attractive by becoming better. Period.

This is for men who are done with the excuses. Men who are ready to take control, get disciplined, and build a presence that turns heads without even trying.

Let’s break it down.

1. Be Physically Imposing

You don’t need to be tall. You need to look like you can handle yourself. Broad shoulders, strong chest, narrow waist, and posture that says ‘I don’t fold under pressure.’

Women notice strength. Not the kind that shows off, but the kind that stands its ground. Silent power speaks loud.

2. Be Financially Self-Reliant

No one’s saying you need a yacht. You just need to be in control of your life. Pay your way, stack your wins, and walk like a man who knows where he’s going.

Money means freedom, and freedom is attractive.

3. Be Aesthetic and Intentional

Keep your face lean. Keep your style clean. Doesn’t mean designer gear, it means you look like you give a damn. Sharp haircut, clear skin, fitted clothes.

Look like a man who has standards.

4. Build a Warrior Physique

Muscle draws eyes because it screams discipline. Every inch you build is earned. Women pick up on that without you having to say a word.

A jacked body says ‘this man doesn’t quit.’

5. Lead With Quiet Confidence

Real confidence isn’t loud. It’s calm. It’s rooted in experience, in hours put in when nobody was watching. You don’t need to flex it, just live it.

When you know who you are, people feel it.

6. Don’t Supplicate or Chase

You’re not a beggar. Don’t orbit women. You are the mission, and she is a potential part of it — not the whole thing.

Never act like you’re lucky to be around her. She’s lucky to meet a man like you.

7. Be Sharp, Not Self-Deprecating

Making people laugh is great. Making yourself the punchline is not. Keep it tight. Keep it teasing. But never lower yourself for attention.

Respect yourself first.

8. Stay Focused on Your World

Be so locked into your grind that she has to catch up to you. You’ve got a body to build, a life to build, a name to build.

A man with momentum doesn’t chase — he attracts.

9. Be Genuinely Unavailable Sometimes

You’re not playing games. You’re just busy doing real things. Miss a message. Delay a reply. Let her wonder a bit.

You’re not ignoring her. You’re investing in your future.

10. Dress Like You Matter

Your appearance is a signal. Wear clothes that fit. Stay clean. Look like someone who values himself.

A man who respects his look is telling the world he respects everything else too.

11. Make the Damn Decision

She doesn’t want a committee. She wants a man who can make the call. Pick the place. Take the lead. Whether it’s dinner or direction, step up.

Masculine energy moves forward. Don’t hesitate.

12. Be a Gentleman in Public, a Savage in Private

Be respectful, be polite, hold the door — but don’t be soft. That primal, dominant side should show up where it counts. She wants both — protection and fire.

Balance matters.

13. Quit Porn, Cut Dopamine, Kill Weak Habits

Porn kills edge. So do junk food, scrolling, and other cheap dopamine. You don’t need fantasy. You need the real fight. The real build.

Keep your hunger sharp.

14. Speak. Say Hi. Take the Shot.

Stop freezing up. Stop building it up in your head. Just say something. Approach. Smile. Be cool. You’re a man — you don’t need permission to show up.

Fear fades. Regret doesn’t.

Final Word

You don’t try to be attractive. You become a man who is.

Build the body. Sharpen the mind. Own your world. And walk like someone who doesn’t need validation — because he’s already earned his own.

You don’t chase women.
You chase purpose — and women chase that.

Jon Stone
Founder, ironresilience.net
Discipline, Not Genetics

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Power Breakfast: Salmon and Liver for Bodybuilders

Power Breakfast: Salmon and Liver for Bodybuilders

If you’re serious about building a physique forged in iron and grit, your first meal sets the tone. Forget cereal and toast. At Iron Resilience, we start the day with something primal — salmon and liver.

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Why Salmon?

  • Complete Protein: 20–25g of high-quality protein per 100g to fuel muscle growth and repair.
  • Omega-3 Powerhouse: Reduces inflammation, enhances recovery, and supports fat metabolism.
  • Micronutrient-Rich: Loaded with B vitamins (especially B12), selenium, and potassium for energy and hormone support.

Why Liver?

  • Nature’s Multivitamin: Packed with vitamin A, iron, zinc, copper, and folate. Vital for testosterone and immune health.
  • Muscle Support: Contains 20g+ protein per 100g, depending on the source (beef, chicken, pork).
  • Mental Clarity & Drive: B12 and iron boost oxygen flow and brain performance.

Why Oats, Greek Yogurt, and “Fitness” Breakfasts Are Weak

  • Blood Sugar Spike: Oats and yogurt are carb-heavy and raise insulin, leading to energy crashes and hunger.
  • Low Nutrient Density: Compared to liver and fatty fish, they’re poor sources of bioavailable vitamins and minerals.
  • Poor Protein Quality: Yogurt protein is incomplete. Oats need pairing with other sources to even hit minimal anabolic thresholds.
  • Estrogenic Effects: Most “fitness yogurts” are processed, sweetened, and mimic dessert more than fuel — a metabolic trap.
  • Gut Disruption: Many people unknowingly react to oats or dairy, leading to bloating and suboptimal digestion.

Start your day with purpose. Not with corporate breakfast propaganda designed to keep you soft, sluggish, and dependent.

Perfect for Breakfast

  • High Satiety: Protein and fat combo keeps you full and focused for hours.
  • Zero Carb Spike: No insulin crash — perfect for keto, OMAD, or intermittent fasting protocols.
  • Nutrient Frontloading: Dominates your daily vitamin and mineral needs before 9 AM.

Iron Resilience Pro Tips

  • Add a fat source like grass-fed butter, egg yolks, or avocado to hit your macros.
  • Rotate liver types to balance your nutrient intake and avoid vitamin A overload.
  • Use lemon juice or vinegar when cooking liver — it boosts flavor and nutrient absorption.

Final Word

This isn’t your average breakfast. This is a warrior’s meal. Salmon and liver fuel a mindset of discipline, strength, and dominance. Eat like a savage, train like a machine, and build your legacy.

Iron Resilience isn’t about comfort. It’s about command. And it starts with what’s on your plate.


Jon Stone
Founder, ironresilience.net
Discipline, Not Genetics

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Don’t Confuse Getting Away With It for Being Healthy

Don’t Confuse Getting Away With It for Being Healthy

By Jon Stone | Iron Resilience

I’m not here to sugarcoat anything.

I vape. I use weed. I eat processed meat. I drink caffeine.
I’m not claiming any of that is healthy—but I don’t lie to myself about it either.
I own my vices. I own my choices. I take the hit and I keep moving forward.

What I won’t do is let this clown world pretend that obesity is healthy.
That sugar addiction is “just another lifestyle.”
That confidence can replace competence.

I’ve been obese—twice.
Once as a fat kid who got bullied and lived in shame.
Once as a grown man who slipped into weakness, comfort, and darkness.

276 pounds. Over 40% body fat.
Scared to swim. Scared to train. Scared to face myself.

But I did face myself. And now I live on the other side of that hell.

This fake freedom people talk about?
It’s an illusion.

How free are you if from age 5 to 18 you’re stuck in school,
Then pay out of pocket or through your parents for 2–4 more years of “education”
Just to get a 40+ hour/week job where you’re told when to eat, piss, and speak,
Where most people are just lucky to survive, drowning in debt from houses, cars, and bills?

And even then—if you do land a job—it might go to a diversity hire,
Or someone overseas who costs 1% as much.
And you’re expected to shut your mouth, smile, and play along
While mainstream media and fake experts dictate your thoughts.

Say the wrong thing? You’re censored, canceled, fired.
Vote? Sure. Between two handpicked puppets who both serve the same machine.
Democracy? More like two wolves and a sheep deciding what’s for dinner.

Meanwhile, the food you’re offered is trash.
High-carb, high-sugar, low-protein processed garbage.
Cheap meals, fake meat, fake health, fake freedom.
And when your body breaks down, they don’t fix it—they drug it.
More pills. More vaccines. More distractions.
More addiction to gaming, porn, social media, and dopamine.

And money? Not even real anymore.
Fiat currency backed by nothing, going digital so they can switch you off with one click.
You need a passport to travel. A license to drive. A permit to build. A mask to breathe.
You pay taxes, obey laws you didn’t write, and bow to speech codes enforced by people you’ll never meet.

That’s not freedom. That’s a padded cage.

Just Because You Can Eat It Doesn’t Mean It Works

People love to point at some jacked guy eating Pop-Tarts and say, “See? Carbs are fine!”
What they don’t tell you is:

  • That guy’s on gear.
  • That guy’s training like a savage.
  • That guy’s a genetic freak who could outlift you on pizza and beer.

You are not that guy. Neither am I.

Even with “clean carbs” like rice or oats, the question isn’t “Can I get away with this?”
It’s “Is this helping me dominate my goals?”

If the answer is no, then it’s weakness.
Disguised as balance.

You want fat loss? Mental clarity? Hunger control? Discipline?
You go very low carb.
You go high protein, high fat.
You go ketogenic. War mode.

Because keto isn’t just for sedentary dieters—it’s for warriors.
Keto athletes exist. They’re breaking records.
Outperforming sugar-junkies on half the fuel.
Because fat-fueled means focused. Fat-fueled means hard to kill.

I’m Not Here for Usain Bolt or Arnold

I’m here for the man working 10-hour shifts.
The man who’s fallen off and needs to claw his way back.
I’m not training Olympians. I’m training you.

You—the man who wants out of the herd.

Herd behavior is drive-thru dinners and cereal for breakfast.
Energy drinks. Candy. Weakness. Excuses.

You want to stand out? Live different. Eat different. Train different.

My Life? It’s Not Pretty. It’s Powerful.

I average 30,000 steps a day.
I train 7 days a week. Rain, shine, pre-work, post-work, doesn’t matter.

Sessions are 45 to 75 minutes of pain—weights, cardio, masochism.
I don’t train for fun. I train to dominate.

I run a 500 to 1,000+ calorie deficit daily—even when I binge.
If I slip, I punish myself. Fasted training. Fasting. Mental resets.

I fall. I bleed. I adapt.
I don’t stay down.

That’s the Iron Resilience Way.
No excuses. No crying. Just cold truth and hard action.


You want comfort? Stay soft.
You want freedom? Start suffering.
Because real freedom doesn’t come from voting, carbs, or Netflix.
It comes from mastering your body, your mind, and your pain.

Resilience is forged in fire.
And I’m still burning.


Jon Stone
Founder: https://ironresilience.net
Discipline, Not Genetics

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Disclaimer:
I do not promote violence, extremism, terrorism, crime, or hate.
This is social commentary—raw, personal, and based on lived experience.
It’s about discipline, self-reliance, and rejecting the excuses that keep you weak.

Why People Give Me Advice at the Gym—Even When I’m 205 lbs with Abs

Why People Give Me Advice at the Gym—Even When I’m 205 lbs with Abs

By Jon Stone | Iron Resilience

You ever notice how the most out-of-shape guys are the first to dish out training and diet advice?

You’re mid-set, headphones in, sweat dripping, muscles pumped. You’re 205 pounds with abs. Disciplined. Dialed in. Focused. And here comes some guy with a soft belly and soft mind telling you what he thinks you should be doing.

Why does this happen?

Because discipline exposes weakness.

Most people don’t want to get better—they want to feel better about not getting better. When they see someone like you—no shortcuts, no excuses, no fads—your results remind them of what they’ve been avoiding: pain, effort, structure, consistency.

So they project.
They advise.
They critique.
They poke holes in your routine, your diet, your methods—not because they want to help, but because they need to protect their ego.

It’s not about you.
It’s about them.

You’re a walking contradiction to their excuses.

You didn’t crash diet or hop on some influencer’s plan. You carved it out over years. You eat steak and eggs while they chase macro-balanced smoothies. You train like a masochist while they scroll through mobility reels. You walk 26,000 steps a day and lift like it matters. You live it.

And that terrifies people who only talk about it.

When you walk into a gym with purpose, the room shifts. People notice. Not just the results—but the energy. The no-bullshit presence. The eyes that say: I came here to suffer. That level of intensity reveals the frauds. It makes them uncomfortable.

So they try to shrink you back down.
With words.
With “tips.”
With passive-aggressive comments.

Let them.

You’re not here to be liked.
You’re here to be forged.

This is Iron Resilience.
Not plastic approval.
Not rubber-band advice.
Iron. Unbending. Unshaken.

And when someone smaller, softer, or lazier comes up to give you “advice,” just remember:
You’ve already won.
They just haven’t figured it out yet.

Is Peanut Butter Good for Cutting Weight?

Is Peanut Butter Good for Cutting Weight?

By Jon Stone | Iron Resilience

Peanut butter is one of those foods that gets thrown around in cutting diets like it’s a magic bullet. Some claim it keeps you full, others act like it’s diet kryptonite. The truth, as always, lies in discipline, intent, and how dialed in your protocol is.

Peanut Butter: The Good, the Bad, and the Fat

The Pros:

  • High in fat, moderate in protein
  • Low in carbs (if you buy natural, no-sugar versions)
  • Decent micronutrient profile—magnesium, potassium, vitamin E
  • Helps kill cravings if used tactically

The Cons:

  • Extremely calorie-dense: 2 tablespoons = ~200 calories
  • Low protein-to-calorie ratio—not ideal for muscle retention during a deficit
  • Easy to overeat, especially when you’re deep in a cut
  • Many commercial versions are filled with sugar and trash oils

For the average guy? Peanut butter is fine in moderation.
For a serious cut? It’s a side character—not the hero.

Iron Resilience Protocol Reality Check

I’m on an extreme cut right now. I’m maintaining 250g of protein and 180–200g of fat per day while creating a 5,000-calorie daily deficit. I’m walking over 25,000 steps a day, training with high output, and my food is weighed, tracked, and planned with intent.

Peanut butter might make an appearance—but it doesn’t lead the charge. Steak, eggs, Greek yogurt, ground beef, sausages, and custom keto desserts get the job done better.

That said, for taste and variety, I built a few spreads that hit my macros clean.

High-Protein Peanut Butter-Style Spread

Macros (per 50g):
300 calories
20g protein
24g fat
3g net carbs

Ingredients:

  • 2 tbsp natural peanut butter (32g)
  • 1 scoop whey isolate (~30g)
  • 1 tbsp melted margarine or coconut oil (15g)
  • 1–2 tbsp unsweetened almond milk
  • Dash of salt and cinnamon (optional)
  • Stevia or erythritol to taste

Instructions:

  1. Mix peanut butter and melted margarine.
  2. Stir in whey isolate slowly.
  3. Add almond milk for texture.
  4. Season to taste.
  5. Store in fridge up to 5 days.

Use it on keto pancakes, with eggs, or frozen into molds for a fat bomb boost.

Zero-Peanut Butter Anabolic Keto Spread

Macros (per 50g):
~280 calories
~25g protein
~21g fat
1–2g net carbs

Ingredients:

  • 1 scoop whey isolate (30g)
  • 1 tbsp margarine or coconut oil
  • 2 tbsp Greek yogurt or cottage cheese
  • 1–2 tbsp almond milk
  • Salt, sweetener, and cinnamon (optional)

Instructions:

  1. Melt margarine and mix with yogurt or cottage cheese.
  2. Add whey isolate and almond milk—stir until creamy.
  3. Sweeten and spice to taste.
  4. Chill and store cold.

This is a clean fat-and-protein bomb that fits any deep cut. Add flaxseed, crushed nuts, or cocoa powder to customize the flavor without wrecking your deficit.

Final Word

Peanut butter isn’t evil. But it’s not a cornerstone food during a serious cut.
If you’re the type of man who’s cutting on war footing—no cheat meals, no margin for error—then peanut butter is just another tool. Respect the macros, weigh every gram, and don’t lie to yourself about portion size.

You want results? Then treat every bite like it’s part of a mission.
Track it. Earn it. Dominate the day.

Stay hard. Stay disciplined.
—Jon Stone | Iron Resilience

Why You Shouldn’t Take Fitness Advice from Obese People

Why You Shouldn’t Take Fitness Advice from Obese People

by Jon Stone | Iron Resilience

We live in strange times. Overweight people hand out diet tips to shredded lifters. Obese keyboard warriors play coach to men with abs, grit, and results. People who haven’t seen their jawline in years crown themselves “fitness experts.”

Here’s the hard truth:
If you’re healthy, disciplined, or already walking the walk—you don’t owe these people your attention.

The Body Doesn’t Lie

You wouldn’t take money advice from someone broke. You wouldn’t learn mental toughness from someone who gave up.

So why take health advice from someone who doesn’t follow their own?

Words are cheap. Results are real.
You can talk about macros and workouts all day—but if you’re not living it, you’re not qualified to teach it. Plain and simple.

In this world, the only thing that earns respect is proof. Not opinions, not intentions. Your body is the evidence. Your routine is the resume. You either show up or you don’t.

Why Do Obese People Give Fitness Advice?

1. Ego Protection

Giving advice helps them feel involved in the fitness world without doing the hard part. It’s roleplay. Makes the ego feel safe while the body stays soft.

2. Fantasy Coaching

They live online, watching YouTube and reading Reddit—thinking that makes them a coach. But knowing theory and living it are two different things.

3. Backwards Culture

We flipped the script. Now, telling someone to earn respect through discipline is called toxic, and making excuses is called brave. That’s not strength. That’s cowardice dressed as kindness.

Are There Exceptions?

Sure—but don’t get it twisted.

Respect the message, but always verify the messenger.
If someone’s not applying the advice and not getting results, why would you listen? Especially if you’re already healthier than them?

The body doesn’t lie. Results are the only credential that matters.

Backed by Science: Not Just Opinion

Here’s what the research says:

  • Appearance Affects Credibility:
    People trust diet advice more from professionals who look fit.
    Source: The Guardian
  • Many Obese People Misjudge Their Health:
    Almost half of overweight women think they’re in “good health” despite the risks.
    Study Link
  • Knowing Isn’t Doing:
    Just because someone knows they’re overweight doesn’t mean they’re doing anything about it.
    Study Link
  • People Follow Advice When It Matches the Messenger:
    Patients take advice more seriously when it comes from someone who actually lives it.
    Study Link
  • Bias Toward Fit Coaches Isn’t Just Prejudice—It’s Pattern Recognition:
    Obese people are seen as lacking discipline for a reason—it’s often true.
    Study Link

Final Word

Look—this isn’t about shaming. It’s about standards.

You don’t need to take advice from someone whose results don’t back it up. Respect the grind. Ignore the noise.

And remember:

  • Your body is your proof.
  • Your output is your voice.
  • Lead by example—stay lean, stay locked in, stay unshakable.

Jon Stone
Iron Resilience