How to Be Attractive to Women

How to Be Attractive to Women

By Jon Stone | Iron Resilience

Attraction isn’t a game. It’s not some trick. You don’t win it by pretending to be someone else. You become attractive by becoming better. Period.

This is for men who are done with the excuses. Men who are ready to take control, get disciplined, and build a presence that turns heads without even trying.

Let’s break it down.

1. Be Physically Imposing

You don’t need to be tall. You need to look like you can handle yourself. Broad shoulders, strong chest, narrow waist, and posture that says ‘I don’t fold under pressure.’

Women notice strength. Not the kind that shows off, but the kind that stands its ground. Silent power speaks loud.

2. Be Financially Self-Reliant

No one’s saying you need a yacht. You just need to be in control of your life. Pay your way, stack your wins, and walk like a man who knows where he’s going.

Money means freedom, and freedom is attractive.

3. Be Aesthetic and Intentional

Keep your face lean. Keep your style clean. Doesn’t mean designer gear, it means you look like you give a damn. Sharp haircut, clear skin, fitted clothes.

Look like a man who has standards.

4. Build a Warrior Physique

Muscle draws eyes because it screams discipline. Every inch you build is earned. Women pick up on that without you having to say a word.

A jacked body says ‘this man doesn’t quit.’

5. Lead With Quiet Confidence

Real confidence isn’t loud. It’s calm. It’s rooted in experience, in hours put in when nobody was watching. You don’t need to flex it, just live it.

When you know who you are, people feel it.

6. Don’t Supplicate or Chase

You’re not a beggar. Don’t orbit women. You are the mission, and she is a potential part of it — not the whole thing.

Never act like you’re lucky to be around her. She’s lucky to meet a man like you.

7. Be Sharp, Not Self-Deprecating

Making people laugh is great. Making yourself the punchline is not. Keep it tight. Keep it teasing. But never lower yourself for attention.

Respect yourself first.

8. Stay Focused on Your World

Be so locked into your grind that she has to catch up to you. You’ve got a body to build, a life to build, a name to build.

A man with momentum doesn’t chase — he attracts.

9. Be Genuinely Unavailable Sometimes

You’re not playing games. You’re just busy doing real things. Miss a message. Delay a reply. Let her wonder a bit.

You’re not ignoring her. You’re investing in your future.

10. Dress Like You Matter

Your appearance is a signal. Wear clothes that fit. Stay clean. Look like someone who values himself.

A man who respects his look is telling the world he respects everything else too.

11. Make the Damn Decision

She doesn’t want a committee. She wants a man who can make the call. Pick the place. Take the lead. Whether it’s dinner or direction, step up.

Masculine energy moves forward. Don’t hesitate.

12. Be a Gentleman in Public, a Savage in Private

Be respectful, be polite, hold the door — but don’t be soft. That primal, dominant side should show up where it counts. She wants both — protection and fire.

Balance matters.

13. Quit Porn, Cut Dopamine, Kill Weak Habits

Porn kills edge. So do junk food, scrolling, and other cheap dopamine. You don’t need fantasy. You need the real fight. The real build.

Keep your hunger sharp.

14. Speak. Say Hi. Take the Shot.

Stop freezing up. Stop building it up in your head. Just say something. Approach. Smile. Be cool. You’re a man — you don’t need permission to show up.

Fear fades. Regret doesn’t.

Final Word

You don’t try to be attractive. You become a man who is.

Build the body. Sharpen the mind. Own your world. And walk like someone who doesn’t need validation — because he’s already earned his own.

You don’t chase women.
You chase purpose — and women chase that.

Jon Stone
Founder, ironresilience.net
Discipline, Not Genetics

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Don’t Confuse Getting Away With It for Being Healthy

Don’t Confuse Getting Away With It for Being Healthy

By Jon Stone | Iron Resilience

I’m not here to sugarcoat anything.

I vape. I use weed. I eat processed meat. I drink caffeine.
I’m not claiming any of that is healthy—but I don’t lie to myself about it either.
I own my vices. I own my choices. I take the hit and I keep moving forward.

What I won’t do is let this clown world pretend that obesity is healthy.
That sugar addiction is “just another lifestyle.”
That confidence can replace competence.

I’ve been obese—twice.
Once as a fat kid who got bullied and lived in shame.
Once as a grown man who slipped into weakness, comfort, and darkness.

276 pounds. Over 40% body fat.
Scared to swim. Scared to train. Scared to face myself.

But I did face myself. And now I live on the other side of that hell.

This fake freedom people talk about?
It’s an illusion.

How free are you if from age 5 to 18 you’re stuck in school,
Then pay out of pocket or through your parents for 2–4 more years of “education”
Just to get a 40+ hour/week job where you’re told when to eat, piss, and speak,
Where most people are just lucky to survive, drowning in debt from houses, cars, and bills?

And even then—if you do land a job—it might go to a diversity hire,
Or someone overseas who costs 1% as much.
And you’re expected to shut your mouth, smile, and play along
While mainstream media and fake experts dictate your thoughts.

Say the wrong thing? You’re censored, canceled, fired.
Vote? Sure. Between two handpicked puppets who both serve the same machine.
Democracy? More like two wolves and a sheep deciding what’s for dinner.

Meanwhile, the food you’re offered is trash.
High-carb, high-sugar, low-protein processed garbage.
Cheap meals, fake meat, fake health, fake freedom.
And when your body breaks down, they don’t fix it—they drug it.
More pills. More vaccines. More distractions.
More addiction to gaming, porn, social media, and dopamine.

And money? Not even real anymore.
Fiat currency backed by nothing, going digital so they can switch you off with one click.
You need a passport to travel. A license to drive. A permit to build. A mask to breathe.
You pay taxes, obey laws you didn’t write, and bow to speech codes enforced by people you’ll never meet.

That’s not freedom. That’s a padded cage.

Just Because You Can Eat It Doesn’t Mean It Works

People love to point at some jacked guy eating Pop-Tarts and say, “See? Carbs are fine!”
What they don’t tell you is:

  • That guy’s on gear.
  • That guy’s training like a savage.
  • That guy’s a genetic freak who could outlift you on pizza and beer.

You are not that guy. Neither am I.

Even with “clean carbs” like rice or oats, the question isn’t “Can I get away with this?”
It’s “Is this helping me dominate my goals?”

If the answer is no, then it’s weakness.
Disguised as balance.

You want fat loss? Mental clarity? Hunger control? Discipline?
You go very low carb.
You go high protein, high fat.
You go ketogenic. War mode.

Because keto isn’t just for sedentary dieters—it’s for warriors.
Keto athletes exist. They’re breaking records.
Outperforming sugar-junkies on half the fuel.
Because fat-fueled means focused. Fat-fueled means hard to kill.

I’m Not Here for Usain Bolt or Arnold

I’m here for the man working 10-hour shifts.
The man who’s fallen off and needs to claw his way back.
I’m not training Olympians. I’m training you.

You—the man who wants out of the herd.

Herd behavior is drive-thru dinners and cereal for breakfast.
Energy drinks. Candy. Weakness. Excuses.

You want to stand out? Live different. Eat different. Train different.

My Life? It’s Not Pretty. It’s Powerful.

I average 30,000 steps a day.
I train 7 days a week. Rain, shine, pre-work, post-work, doesn’t matter.

Sessions are 45 to 75 minutes of pain—weights, cardio, masochism.
I don’t train for fun. I train to dominate.

I run a 500 to 1,000+ calorie deficit daily—even when I binge.
If I slip, I punish myself. Fasted training. Fasting. Mental resets.

I fall. I bleed. I adapt.
I don’t stay down.

That’s the Iron Resilience Way.
No excuses. No crying. Just cold truth and hard action.


You want comfort? Stay soft.
You want freedom? Start suffering.
Because real freedom doesn’t come from voting, carbs, or Netflix.
It comes from mastering your body, your mind, and your pain.

Resilience is forged in fire.
And I’m still burning.


Jon Stone
Founder: https://ironresilience.net
Discipline, Not Genetics

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Disclaimer:
I do not promote violence, extremism, terrorism, crime, or hate.
This is social commentary—raw, personal, and based on lived experience.
It’s about discipline, self-reliance, and rejecting the excuses that keep you weak.

Why People Give Me Advice at the Gym—Even When I’m 205 lbs with Abs

Why People Give Me Advice at the Gym—Even When I’m 205 lbs with Abs

By Jon Stone | Iron Resilience

You ever notice how the most out-of-shape guys are the first to dish out training and diet advice?

You’re mid-set, headphones in, sweat dripping, muscles pumped. You’re 205 pounds with abs. Disciplined. Dialed in. Focused. And here comes some guy with a soft belly and soft mind telling you what he thinks you should be doing.

Why does this happen?

Because discipline exposes weakness.

Most people don’t want to get better—they want to feel better about not getting better. When they see someone like you—no shortcuts, no excuses, no fads—your results remind them of what they’ve been avoiding: pain, effort, structure, consistency.

So they project.
They advise.
They critique.
They poke holes in your routine, your diet, your methods—not because they want to help, but because they need to protect their ego.

It’s not about you.
It’s about them.

You’re a walking contradiction to their excuses.

You didn’t crash diet or hop on some influencer’s plan. You carved it out over years. You eat steak and eggs while they chase macro-balanced smoothies. You train like a masochist while they scroll through mobility reels. You walk 26,000 steps a day and lift like it matters. You live it.

And that terrifies people who only talk about it.

When you walk into a gym with purpose, the room shifts. People notice. Not just the results—but the energy. The no-bullshit presence. The eyes that say: I came here to suffer. That level of intensity reveals the frauds. It makes them uncomfortable.

So they try to shrink you back down.
With words.
With “tips.”
With passive-aggressive comments.

Let them.

You’re not here to be liked.
You’re here to be forged.

This is Iron Resilience.
Not plastic approval.
Not rubber-band advice.
Iron. Unbending. Unshaken.

And when someone smaller, softer, or lazier comes up to give you “advice,” just remember:
You’ve already won.
They just haven’t figured it out yet.

Why You Shouldn’t Take Fitness Advice from Obese People

Why You Shouldn’t Take Fitness Advice from Obese People

by Jon Stone | Iron Resilience

We live in strange times. Overweight people hand out diet tips to shredded lifters. Obese keyboard warriors play coach to men with abs, grit, and results. People who haven’t seen their jawline in years crown themselves “fitness experts.”

Here’s the hard truth:
If you’re healthy, disciplined, or already walking the walk—you don’t owe these people your attention.

The Body Doesn’t Lie

You wouldn’t take money advice from someone broke. You wouldn’t learn mental toughness from someone who gave up.

So why take health advice from someone who doesn’t follow their own?

Words are cheap. Results are real.
You can talk about macros and workouts all day—but if you’re not living it, you’re not qualified to teach it. Plain and simple.

In this world, the only thing that earns respect is proof. Not opinions, not intentions. Your body is the evidence. Your routine is the resume. You either show up or you don’t.

Why Do Obese People Give Fitness Advice?

1. Ego Protection

Giving advice helps them feel involved in the fitness world without doing the hard part. It’s roleplay. Makes the ego feel safe while the body stays soft.

2. Fantasy Coaching

They live online, watching YouTube and reading Reddit—thinking that makes them a coach. But knowing theory and living it are two different things.

3. Backwards Culture

We flipped the script. Now, telling someone to earn respect through discipline is called toxic, and making excuses is called brave. That’s not strength. That’s cowardice dressed as kindness.

Are There Exceptions?

Sure—but don’t get it twisted.

Respect the message, but always verify the messenger.
If someone’s not applying the advice and not getting results, why would you listen? Especially if you’re already healthier than them?

The body doesn’t lie. Results are the only credential that matters.

Backed by Science: Not Just Opinion

Here’s what the research says:

  • Appearance Affects Credibility:
    People trust diet advice more from professionals who look fit.
    Source: The Guardian
  • Many Obese People Misjudge Their Health:
    Almost half of overweight women think they’re in “good health” despite the risks.
    Study Link
  • Knowing Isn’t Doing:
    Just because someone knows they’re overweight doesn’t mean they’re doing anything about it.
    Study Link
  • People Follow Advice When It Matches the Messenger:
    Patients take advice more seriously when it comes from someone who actually lives it.
    Study Link
  • Bias Toward Fit Coaches Isn’t Just Prejudice—It’s Pattern Recognition:
    Obese people are seen as lacking discipline for a reason—it’s often true.
    Study Link

Final Word

Look—this isn’t about shaming. It’s about standards.

You don’t need to take advice from someone whose results don’t back it up. Respect the grind. Ignore the noise.

And remember:

  • Your body is your proof.
  • Your output is your voice.
  • Lead by example—stay lean, stay locked in, stay unshakable.

Jon Stone
Iron Resilience

Why I Chose Keto—and Why Sugar Addicts Hate That

Why I Chose Keto—and Why Sugar Addicts Hate That

I’m not an elite endurance athlete, but I walk 17–20 miles daily and train 45–75 minutes a day. Before eliminating processed carbs and sugars, I struggled with hypoglycemia, mood swings, and energy crashes. Transitioning to a ketogenic diet was transformative for me.

Plenty of serious endurance athletes thrive on low-carb and keto approaches. Ultra-endurance runner Zach Bitter broke the 100-mile world record on a ketogenic diet. Elite Ironman triathletes like Dr. Dan Plews use low-carb strategies to optimize fat metabolism and endurance. It’s not just about performance—it’s about longevity, hormone stability, and mental clarity.

Sugar Is Not Fuel. It’s a Metabolic Wrecking Ball.

Let’s be real: processed sugar isn’t fuel—it’s biochemical sabotage. According to Dr. Robert Lustig at UCSF, added sugar (especially in liquid form like soda and energy drinks) is “toxic,” contributing to insulin resistance, obesity, and non-alcoholic fatty liver disease. [UCSF Source]

A 2023 BMJ meta-review found strong evidence linking sugar intake to increased risks of type 2 diabetes, cardiovascular disease, and depression. [BMJ Review, 2023]

Sugary Drinks: Liquid Fat Storage

Drinking calories is one of the fastest ways to ruin metabolic health. Sugary drinks like soda, “sports drinks,” and sweetened teas bypass satiety signals and spike insulin violently. Harvard researchers found that people who consume sugary beverages daily have a 26% higher risk of developing type 2 diabetes. [Harvard School of Public Health]

White Bread and Sugary Cereals: Modern Man’s Junk Fuel

White bread and cereals are marketed as staples but are actually ultra-processed, insulin-spiking garbage. Stripped of fiber, minerals, and protein, they act just like sugar in the bloodstream. A study in Diabetes Care showed that high glycemic foods like white bread increase insulin resistance and inflammation. [Diabetes Care, 2002]

Cereals marketed to children contain more sugar per serving than cookies. The Environmental Working Group found that some “healthy” cereals are over 50% sugar by weight. [EWG Report, 2014]

Weston A. Price Warned Us Nearly 100 Years Ago

In his foundational work Nutrition and Physical Degeneration, Dr. Weston A. Price documented how traditional, ancestral diets built strong bodies and minds—while refined sugar and white flour triggered rapid physical decay. He observed widespread dental deformities, bone narrowing, and behavioral issues appearing within a single generation when indigenous tribes switched to white bread, jam, canned goods, and sugar. [Weston A. Price Foundation]

The modern diet is not built for strength—it’s built for profit. It hijacks your dopamine, spikes your insulin, weakens your bones, and burns out your endocrine system. That’s the truth they don’t want you to hear.

The Keto Difference

If you burn 6,000 calories a day, sure—maybe you can get away with sugar and lard. But for the average guy trying to lose fat, build muscle, and protect his testosterone? High-carb diets are a hormonal trap. I lived it. I crashed hard on a grain-based diet. I leveled up on keto.

I’m not here to argue. I’m here to live. Want more? Read the work. Follow the mindset. Or don’t. I really don’t care either way.


Jon Stone
Founder, ironresilience.net
Discipline, Not Genetics

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No Playbook for Chaos: 10 Principles for Navigating the Modern Dating Game

No Playbook for Chaos: 10 Principles for Navigating the Modern Dating Game

by Jon Stone

Better men than me tried to write the playbook. They ran the numbers, broke it down, studied female psychology like it was some kind of formula. But here’s what you find out the hard way — there is no playbook. Not for chaos. Not for mood swings. Not for the girl who invites you over, books the hotel herself, and cancels five minutes before you’re supposed to walk in.

You can waste years trying to decode something that’s not built on logic — or you can keep these 10 principles in your back pocket and stop letting it throw you off center.

  1. Don’t Try to Make Sense of It
    She wanted it. She planned it. Then she flaked. Why? Doesn’t matter. Most of what happens in dating isn’t logical, it’s emotional. If you’re chasing logic, you’re always going to be behind.
  2. The Vibe Is Everything
    It’s not about what you’ve done. It’s about how you make her feel in that moment. If she’s horny and you’re talking about cuddles, you lose. If she wants to feel safe and you bring full aggression, you lose. Presence matters more than performance.
  3. There Is No Script
    You’re not running lines, you’re responding to the moment. Every situation is unique. Trying to copy and paste someone else’s method will only make you stiff and predictable. Drop the tactics and move like a man who’s been there before.
  4. Female Desire Is Situational
    Same girl, different day — different outcome. You could do everything ‘right’ and still get ghosted. You could show up lazy and still get laid. Don’t take any of it personally, just stay consistent with who you are.
  5. Redpill Is a Tool, Not a Religion
    Use the awareness, but don’t let it turn you bitter. Some girls actually like you. If you try to ‘alpha’ a girl who’s already down for you, you’ll kill the spark. Stay sharp, but don’t turn everything into a test.
  6. Stop With the Pedestals
    She’s not better than you. She’s not a devil either. She’s just a person — instincts, moods, insecurities and all. If you keep putting girls in boxes, you’re never going to see them for what they are.
  7. Treat Whores Like Queens, and Queens Like Whores
    Not because you’re playing games, but because you’re flipping expectations. The ‘good girl’ act is often a front. The wild one might have the most loyalty. Show value where it’s not expected. Withhold it where it’s assumed.
  8. Mission First, Always
    Once she becomes your main focus, she loses respect. Women want to join your story, not become the plot. Stay moving. Stay building. If she wants in, great. If not, keep walking.
  9. Be the Order in the Chaos
    She’ll throw emotional tests. She’ll contradict herself. She might even ghost you for a week and come back like nothing happened. Your job isn’t to chase or correct — it’s to stay grounded. Be the calm presence she can feel, not the reactive one she controls.
  10. Transcend the Game
    Most guys are trying to win women. You should be trying to win you. Strength, discipline, clarity — that’s the real flex. Women will come and go. Your legacy doesn’t.

Iron Resilience means you don’t need a script. You are the script. And it’s written in blood, sweat, and repetition — not fantasies.

Jon Stone
Founder, ironresilience.net
Discipline, Not Genetics

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Why I’m a Caveman

Why I’m a Caveman

Animals don’t have depression. They don’t have girl problems, legal problems, job worries, or bank accounts.

I know I’m on to something when people say, ‘Jon, you eat like a goddamn caveman.’

And they’re right. I do eat like that. Because modern life is broken. There’s nothing left worth dying for anymore. No great wars, no battles, no real conquests.

We need to return to monkey. Seriously.

Modern life is hell. It’s a mouse utopia. A hundred years ago boredom and being fat and lazy was a luxury only the rich could afford. Now? Everybody’s bored, fat, and lazy.

People scroll on their phones all day, trapped in distraction and comfort. We trade real struggle for safety and end up weaker inside and out.

That’s why I live the way I do. Not to impress anyone or because it’s trendy. I want to be free from the cage modern life builds around us.

I don’t always train fasted. I don’t always eat one meal a day. I’m just a guy who knows this world isn’t made for us.

We weren’t built to sit all day, overfed, overstimulated, and spiritually empty.

We were made to move, to hunt, to sweat, to fight, to push ourselves. That’s how you escape the mouse utopia.

If you want to survive this modern hell, you’ve got to reject the easy life. Get back to basics. Become a caveman again—not for show, but for your sanity and strength.

So yeah, call me a caveman. I’ll take that over a domesticated man quietly dying in comfort any day.

Jon Stone
Founder, ironresilience.net
Discipline, Not Genetics

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The Legal Alternative to Meth and Adderall: How to Get Focus and Appetite Suppression Without the Risks

The Legal Alternative to Meth and Adderall: How to Get Focus and Appetite Suppression Without the Risks

If you’ve ever seen what Adderall or meth can do to your focus and appetite, you know it’s like flipping a switch. Suddenly distractions vanish, hunger dies, and your brain locks in. But those drugs aren’t gifts — they’re traps. Addiction, heart strain, mental breakdowns, and crashes that wreck your life.

Most guys chasing that edge don’t need to destroy themselves to get results. There’s a legal, safer way to get razor-sharp focus and curb your appetite — and stay standing.

Here’s the real deal on the legal stimulant stack that works.

Caffeine — The Classic Powerhouse

Caffeine is the foundation. Between 200 and 400 mg a day wakes your mind and helps shut off hunger. But go over 400 mg and you risk anxiety, jitters, and heart issues. It’s a fine line.

Pair caffeine with L-theanine, an amino acid from tea, to smooth out the buzz and lock in calm focus that lasts.

Nicotine Pouches or Gum — The Underrated Weapon

Nicotine, used right, is one of the strongest legal appetite suppressants and focus boosters out there. Low doses around 1 to 6 mg can kill hunger and sharpen your alertness.

But nicotine’s addictive. Treat it like a tool — not a habit. Use sparingly.

Ephedrine and Pseudoephedrine — The Old School Boost

These are legal but regulated stimulants that have been around for ages. Ephedrine can crank up your energy and suppress appetite hard, but it comes with risks — heart strain, jitters, and tolerance build-up fast. Pseudoephedrine is milder and found in some cold meds, but it can still give a mild stimulant effect.

If you’re thinking about these, be smart, cycle them carefully, and don’t push too far. They’re closer to the effects of Adderall than caffeine or nicotine alone, but not without downsides.

Adaptogens and Nootropics — The Mental Armor

Supplements like Rhodiola Rosea, Theacrine, and Bacopa Monnieri don’t hit hard instantly, but they help reduce fatigue, improve mood, and sharpen cognition over time. They build steady energy without crashing or burning you out.

How to Stack Them for Maximum Effect

Here’s a no-bullshit routine to get serious focus and appetite control:

  • Morning: 200 mg caffeine (coffee or strong tea) plus 200 mg L-theanine
  • Midday: 1–3 mg nicotine pouch if appetite or focus drops
  • Afternoon: Optional 100–200 mg caffeine with L-theanine for another push
  • Daily: Adaptogens like Rhodiola Rosea or Theacrine for steady mental resilience
  • Ephedrine cycles only if you know what you’re doing, sparingly and carefully

This stack is strong, legal, and sustainable. It won’t blast you off like Adderall or meth, but it will get you locked in without wrecking your body.

Final Warning: Don’t Chase Speed

Chasing the rush of meth or Adderall will burn you down. There is no legal substitute that gives you that exact fire — and that’s good. Use these legal stimulants smartly, respect their limits, and build your focus and appetite control over time.

If you want a customized legal stack to dominate your day and control hunger without risking your health, I’m here to help.

Stay sharp, stay disciplined, and keep your edge on your terms.

Jon Stone
Founder, ironresilience.net
Discipline, Not Genetics

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Why I Swapped Greek Yogurt for Cottage Cheese and Peanut Butter for Butter on Keto

Why I Swapped Greek Yogurt for Cottage Cheese and Peanut Butter for Butter on Keto

by Jon Stone

In ketogenic bodybuilding, the small things add up. You might think you’re doing everything right, but some foods that look clean on the surface can quietly hold you back. I’m not here to preach or sell a one-size-fits-all plan. This is just what I’ve learned through trial, error, and real-world discipline. If you’re running a strict keto system for physique and performance, these are the swaps that made a real difference for me.

Greek Yogurt vs Cottage Cheese

Greek yogurt is popular for a reason. It’s high in protein and easy to find. But even the plain, unsweetened versions still have a surprising amount of carbs from lactose. I found it spiked my cravings and left me feeling less sharp over time. For someone doing standard low-carb, it might be fine. But for strict keto with a focus on body comp and mental clarity, it’s not ideal.

I swapped in full-fat cottage cheese instead. It’s lower in carbs, higher in protein per calorie, and easier on my digestion. It also holds me over longer and doesn’t trigger the same hunger rebounds. It’s not fancy, but it does the job.

Peanut Butter vs Butter

Peanut butter is another food that gets overhyped. Yeah, it has fat and protein. But it also comes with omega-6s, lectins, and just enough carbs to mess with insulin and fat adaptation. On paper it looks keto, but for me, it always led to overeating and loss of discipline. It’s also one of those foods that’s way too easy to binge.

I replaced it with butter. Just butter. No sugar, no plant toxins, no hidden macros. It’s pure fuel. I’ll use it in coffee, cook with it, or just melt it over meat and eggs. It’s helped me stay deeper in ketosis and dialed in with less effort. Butter doesn’t lie to you.

Why These Swaps Matter

I’m not saying everyone needs to follow this exactly. Do what works for your body and goals. But if you’re running a tight keto approach for strength, aesthetics, and clarity, these swaps are more than just upgrades — they’re optimal.

You don’t need to overthink it. Just stay consistent, cut out what doesn’t serve you, and fuel up on clean, simple foods that support the mission.

Jon Stone
Founder, ironresilience.net
Discipline, Not Genetics

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My Daily Rant for Today: Johnny Fatndumb, Oofy Doofy & the Small Dick Energy Hustlers

My Daily Rant for Today: Johnny Fatndumb, Oofy Doofy & the Small Dick Energy Hustlers

You ever just wake up, check your feed, and immediately want to throw your phone in the toilet? That’s been me lately. Everyone’s trying to look like they’re on a magazine cover but acting like they live in a daycare. It’s a clown show out here.

Hustle Culture Ain’t the Problem. You Are.

Most of these dudes don’t even believe in what they’re doing. They’re just copying whatever grindset reel got the most likes last week. They’re burned out already because they never stood for anything. If you’re doing it for likes, followers, validation, or fake alpha points, you’re not gonna last. You’re a Johnny Fatndumb hustling backwards.

Grind culture isn’t toxic. You are. You’re toxic to yourself when you lie every day and pretend that filming your coffee and morning journal is gonna build a legacy. That’s not hustle. That’s cope. Real hustle is lonely, boring, and done in silence. Not for the explore page.

The Gym Ain’t Your Tinder Profile

Half the guys in the gym are training for women or TikTok. Not strength. Not aesthetics. Not self-respect. They’re flexing in mirrors like they just conquered Mount Olympus, but can’t even do a clean pull-up. Bro, your entire upper body is water weight and a half scoop of pre.

And stop posting shirtless pics when you look like a garbage bag with arms. I’m sorry, but 20 inch fatceps covered in stretch marks aren’t impressive. That’s not hypertrophy. That’s mashed potatoes in a trash bag in the summer sun. I don’t care if you think it’s ‘progress.’ You’re not shredded. You’re sweaty and sad.

Then there’s the bloated, inflamed, red-skinned tren bros. Acne everywhere, faces like tomatoes, necks like sausages. And they act like they’re gods. Lighting, angles, fake natty claims… you’re not fooling anyone except the 16-year-olds who think 3 grams of gear is a personality.

No One Wants to See Your Mantits

Everyone’s just naked now. Dudes built like soggy bread just dropping their pants online like they’re stepping on stage. Bro, put your shirt back on. This isn’t Mr Olympia, it’s Instagram. Save the thirst traps for when you actually look like you train.

Why Are You Even Doing This?

If you’re doing this for clout, just quit now. If you’re only in the game for likes or women or cheap dopamine hits, you’re gonna burn out. You’re gonna quit. Because you never had a reason deeper than your ego.

You do this because it builds you. You do it because it hardens your mind, carves your body, and reinforces who you are. It’s not supposed to feel easy. It’s supposed to make you tougher.

I’m not here to motivate soft men. I’m here to wake up savages. Post when you’ve earned it. Train because it’s who you are, not who you’re pretending to be. Don’t be another bloated oofy doofy chasing fake alpha points. Be disciplined. Be built. Be dangerous.

Jon Stone
Founder, ironresilience.net
Discipline, Not Genetics

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