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Why People Give Me Advice at the Gym—Even When I’m 205 lbs with Abs

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Why People Give Me Advice at the Gym—Even When I’m 205 lbs with Abs

By Jon Stone | Iron Resilience

You ever notice how the most out-of-shape guys are the first to dish out training and diet advice?

You’re mid-set, headphones in, sweat dripping, muscles pumped. You’re 205 pounds with abs. Disciplined. Dialed in. Focused. And here comes some guy with a soft belly and soft mind telling you what he thinks you should be doing.

Why does this happen?

Because discipline exposes weakness.

Most people don’t want to get better—they want to feel better about not getting better. When they see someone like you—no shortcuts, no excuses, no fads—your results remind them of what they’ve been avoiding: pain, effort, structure, consistency.

So they project.
They advise.
They critique.
They poke holes in your routine, your diet, your methods—not because they want to help, but because they need to protect their ego.

It’s not about you.
It’s about them.

You’re a walking contradiction to their excuses.

You didn’t crash diet or hop on some influencer’s plan. You carved it out over years. You eat steak and eggs while they chase macro-balanced smoothies. You train like a masochist while they scroll through mobility reels. You walk 26,000 steps a day and lift like it matters. You live it.

And that terrifies people who only talk about it.

When you walk into a gym with purpose, the room shifts. People notice. Not just the results—but the energy. The no-bullshit presence. The eyes that say: I came here to suffer. That level of intensity reveals the frauds. It makes them uncomfortable.

So they try to shrink you back down.
With words.
With “tips.”
With passive-aggressive comments.

Let them.

You’re not here to be liked.
You’re here to be forged.

This is Iron Resilience.
Not plastic approval.
Not rubber-band advice.
Iron. Unbending. Unshaken.

And when someone smaller, softer, or lazier comes up to give you “advice,” just remember:
You’ve already won.
They just haven’t figured it out yet.

No Playbook for Chaos: 10 Principles for Navigating the Modern Dating Game

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No Playbook for Chaos: 10 Principles for Navigating the Modern Dating Game

by Jon Stone

Better men than me tried to write the playbook. They ran the numbers, broke it down, studied female psychology like it was some kind of formula. But here’s what you find out the hard way — there is no playbook. Not for chaos. Not for mood swings. Not for the girl who invites you over, books the hotel herself, and cancels five minutes before you’re supposed to walk in.

You can waste years trying to decode something that’s not built on logic — or you can keep these 10 principles in your back pocket and stop letting it throw you off center.

  1. Don’t Try to Make Sense of It
    She wanted it. She planned it. Then she flaked. Why? Doesn’t matter. Most of what happens in dating isn’t logical, it’s emotional. If you’re chasing logic, you’re always going to be behind.
  2. The Vibe Is Everything
    It’s not about what you’ve done. It’s about how you make her feel in that moment. If she’s horny and you’re talking about cuddles, you lose. If she wants to feel safe and you bring full aggression, you lose. Presence matters more than performance.
  3. There Is No Script
    You’re not running lines, you’re responding to the moment. Every situation is unique. Trying to copy and paste someone else’s method will only make you stiff and predictable. Drop the tactics and move like a man who’s been there before.
  4. Female Desire Is Situational
    Same girl, different day — different outcome. You could do everything ‘right’ and still get ghosted. You could show up lazy and still get laid. Don’t take any of it personally, just stay consistent with who you are.
  5. Redpill Is a Tool, Not a Religion
    Use the awareness, but don’t let it turn you bitter. Some girls actually like you. If you try to ‘alpha’ a girl who’s already down for you, you’ll kill the spark. Stay sharp, but don’t turn everything into a test.
  6. Stop With the Pedestals
    She’s not better than you. She’s not a devil either. She’s just a person — instincts, moods, insecurities and all. If you keep putting girls in boxes, you’re never going to see them for what they are.
  7. Treat Whores Like Queens, and Queens Like Whores
    Not because you’re playing games, but because you’re flipping expectations. The ‘good girl’ act is often a front. The wild one might have the most loyalty. Show value where it’s not expected. Withhold it where it’s assumed.
  8. Mission First, Always
    Once she becomes your main focus, she loses respect. Women want to join your story, not become the plot. Stay moving. Stay building. If she wants in, great. If not, keep walking.
  9. Be the Order in the Chaos
    She’ll throw emotional tests. She’ll contradict herself. She might even ghost you for a week and come back like nothing happened. Your job isn’t to chase or correct — it’s to stay grounded. Be the calm presence she can feel, not the reactive one she controls.
  10. Transcend the Game
    Most guys are trying to win women. You should be trying to win you. Strength, discipline, clarity — that’s the real flex. Women will come and go. Your legacy doesn’t.

Iron Resilience means you don’t need a script. You are the script. And it’s written in blood, sweat, and repetition — not fantasies.

Jon Stone
Founder, ironresilience.net
Discipline, Not Genetics

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The Legal Alternative to Meth and Adderall: How to Get Focus and Appetite Suppression Without the Risks

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The Legal Alternative to Meth and Adderall: How to Get Focus and Appetite Suppression Without the Risks

If you’ve ever seen what Adderall or meth can do to your focus and appetite, you know it’s like flipping a switch. Suddenly distractions vanish, hunger dies, and your brain locks in. But those drugs aren’t gifts — they’re traps. Addiction, heart strain, mental breakdowns, and crashes that wreck your life.

Most guys chasing that edge don’t need to destroy themselves to get results. There’s a legal, safer way to get razor-sharp focus and curb your appetite — and stay standing.

Here’s the real deal on the legal stimulant stack that works.

Caffeine — The Classic Powerhouse

Caffeine is the foundation. Between 200 and 400 mg a day wakes your mind and helps shut off hunger. But go over 400 mg and you risk anxiety, jitters, and heart issues. It’s a fine line.

Pair caffeine with L-theanine, an amino acid from tea, to smooth out the buzz and lock in calm focus that lasts.

Nicotine Pouches or Gum — The Underrated Weapon

Nicotine, used right, is one of the strongest legal appetite suppressants and focus boosters out there. Low doses around 1 to 6 mg can kill hunger and sharpen your alertness.

But nicotine’s addictive. Treat it like a tool — not a habit. Use sparingly.

Ephedrine and Pseudoephedrine — The Old School Boost

These are legal but regulated stimulants that have been around for ages. Ephedrine can crank up your energy and suppress appetite hard, but it comes with risks — heart strain, jitters, and tolerance build-up fast. Pseudoephedrine is milder and found in some cold meds, but it can still give a mild stimulant effect.

If you’re thinking about these, be smart, cycle them carefully, and don’t push too far. They’re closer to the effects of Adderall than caffeine or nicotine alone, but not without downsides.

Adaptogens and Nootropics — The Mental Armor

Supplements like Rhodiola Rosea, Theacrine, and Bacopa Monnieri don’t hit hard instantly, but they help reduce fatigue, improve mood, and sharpen cognition over time. They build steady energy without crashing or burning you out.

How to Stack Them for Maximum Effect

Here’s a no-bullshit routine to get serious focus and appetite control:

  • Morning: 200 mg caffeine (coffee or strong tea) plus 200 mg L-theanine
  • Midday: 1–3 mg nicotine pouch if appetite or focus drops
  • Afternoon: Optional 100–200 mg caffeine with L-theanine for another push
  • Daily: Adaptogens like Rhodiola Rosea or Theacrine for steady mental resilience
  • Ephedrine cycles only if you know what you’re doing, sparingly and carefully

This stack is strong, legal, and sustainable. It won’t blast you off like Adderall or meth, but it will get you locked in without wrecking your body.

Final Warning: Don’t Chase Speed

Chasing the rush of meth or Adderall will burn you down. There is no legal substitute that gives you that exact fire — and that’s good. Use these legal stimulants smartly, respect their limits, and build your focus and appetite control over time.

If you want a customized legal stack to dominate your day and control hunger without risking your health, I’m here to help.

Stay sharp, stay disciplined, and keep your edge on your terms.

Jon Stone
Founder, ironresilience.net
Discipline, Not Genetics

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Shredded Over Size: The Iron Resilience Standard

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Shredded Over Size: The Iron Resilience Standard

By Jon Stone
Founder of ironresilience.net
Discipline, Not Genetics

There’s a weird thing that happens when you get lean.

You drop 50 or more pounds of fat, veins start showing up, your jawline comes back, and your pants go from XL to medium. And yet, someone still points at a dude with a beer gut and says ‘he’s stronger than you’.

It’s not hate. It’s just the mindset out there. Big equals strong to most people. Even if that guy’s out of breath walking to the fridge.

The Powerlifter Bubble

Some guys live in this world where lifting is everything. Westside, chalk, five plates, bar bends, and chicken wings after the gym. They call it powerbuilding. They say shredded guys are weak. They love to joke about abs being ‘earned in the kitchen but lost in the squat rack.’

Alright, fair. They lift heavy. But lifting isn’t the same thing as building a body. And most of the time, they’re hiding behind strength numbers so they can keep eating garbage and call it ‘fuel.’

Not all of them, sure. But enough.

Two Different Roads

Let’s break it down. There are two types of lifters.

One trains for discipline, shape, performance, and confidence. He looks like he was carved out of stone.

The other trains to get strong and eat a lot. He’s proud of his lifts but hasn’t seen his jaw since high school.

Both work hard. Only one lives hard.

Why Size Matters to Some Women More Than Leanness

Here’s an important detail that often gets overlooked: many women, especially those raised around big, strong, stocky men—like construction workers, tradesmen, or heavy laborers—actually find bigger, more solid guys more attractive. They see size and bulk as real strength, not just muscle definition.

For them, an 18-inch “fatcep” might feel stronger and more impressive than a 16.5-inch shredded bicep. It’s what they grew up around. Even women who carry extra weight themselves tend to prefer partners who look solid and powerful over lean and shredded.

Skinnyfat guys usually get lost in the middle—neither lean nor truly strong-looking—and that often leaves them invisible in this dynamic.

The Shredded Aesthetic Protocol

Calories: around 2000 a day
Macros: 250g protein, 120-140g fat, under 20g carbs
Meals: OMAD (one meal a day) on work days, two meals on rest days
Style: Ketogenic, fasted training, high volume, dry and shredded

Sample Meals

Workday OMAD:
– 8 oz ribeye
– 3 eggs fried in butter
– Spinach and flaxseed
– Keto chai with almond milk

Rest day meals:
Meal 1: Greek yogurt, whey, almond butter
Meal 2: Bacon, eggs, avocado, sardines

Training: Push Pull Legs – 6 days per week

Day 1 – Push:
Incline DB Press 4×10
DB Shoulder Press 4×12
Lateral Raises 4×20
Dips 3 sets to failure
Overhead Triceps Extensions 3×15

Day 2 – Pull:
Pullups 4×8
Barbell Rows 4×10
Face Pulls 3×20
EZ Bar Curl 4×12
Hammer Curls 3×10

Day 3 – Legs:
Front Squat 4×8
Romanian Deadlift 4×10
Walking Lunges 3×15
Hamstring Curls 3×20
Calf Raises 4×20

Days 4-6: Repeat with variation
Add incline bench, Arnold press, rack pulls, hack squats etc.

Cardio: 45-60 minutes fasted walking daily
Optional: 2x per week HIIT (20 mins)

The Dirty Bulk Big Boy Setup

He’s not lazy. He’s in the gym. He moves weight. But he also eats like he’s bulking year-round. And yeah, he’s strong. But he’s tired all the time. Says cardio kills gains. And the only lines he has are in his forehead.

Calories: 3500 to 4000
Macros: 220g protein, 250-300g fat, under 20g carbs
Meals: 6 to 8 meals a day
Style: Dirty keto, strongman fuel, always eating

Sample Meals

Meal 1: 4 eggs, cheese, bacon, sausage, butter coffee
Meal 2: Ground beef, margarine, cheddar, bell peppers
Meal 3: Whey shake with almond butter
Meal 4: Chicken thighs, mayo, broccoli with melted cheese
Snacks: Hot dogs, pork rinds, cottage cheese, keto pudding

Training: 4-Day Westside Split

Day 1 – Upper Max Effort:
Barbell Bench 5×5
Weighted Dips 4×10
DB Rows 4×10
Seated Overhead Press 3×10
Rope Extensions 3×15

Day 2 – Lower Max Effort:
Deadlifts 5×3
Box Squats 4×6
Step-Ups 3×10
Hamstring Curls 3×15
Calf Raises 4×20

Day 3 – Upper Speed:
Speed Bench 8×3
Chin-Ups 4×10
Incline DB Press 3×12
Lateral Raises 4×20
Close-Grip Press 3×10

Day 4 – Lower Speed:
Speed Squats 8×2
Power Cleans 3×5
RDLs 4×10
Glute Ham Raises 3×8
Tibialis Raises 3×20

Cardio: 15k steps minimum on active days

What Do You Want to Be?

You can be big. You can be strong. You can even be both. But if you’re not shredded, you’re not finished.

You don’t have to do it like everyone else. But if you want the body, the clarity, and the power that doesn’t fade when the barbell is gone, you’ve got to take the harder road.

Get lean. Get dry. Get real.

That’s Iron Resilience.

Jon Stone
Founder, ironresilience.net
Discipline, Not Genetics

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YouTube: https://youtube.com/@ironresilience91
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Why I Swapped Greek Yogurt for Cottage Cheese and Peanut Butter for Butter on Keto

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Why I Swapped Greek Yogurt for Cottage Cheese and Peanut Butter for Butter on Keto

by Jon Stone

In ketogenic bodybuilding, the small things add up. You might think you’re doing everything right, but some foods that look clean on the surface can quietly hold you back. I’m not here to preach or sell a one-size-fits-all plan. This is just what I’ve learned through trial, error, and real-world discipline. If you’re running a strict keto system for physique and performance, these are the swaps that made a real difference for me.

Greek Yogurt vs Cottage Cheese

Greek yogurt is popular for a reason. It’s high in protein and easy to find. But even the plain, unsweetened versions still have a surprising amount of carbs from lactose. I found it spiked my cravings and left me feeling less sharp over time. For someone doing standard low-carb, it might be fine. But for strict keto with a focus on body comp and mental clarity, it’s not ideal.

I swapped in full-fat cottage cheese instead. It’s lower in carbs, higher in protein per calorie, and easier on my digestion. It also holds me over longer and doesn’t trigger the same hunger rebounds. It’s not fancy, but it does the job.

Peanut Butter vs Butter

Peanut butter is another food that gets overhyped. Yeah, it has fat and protein. But it also comes with omega-6s, lectins, and just enough carbs to mess with insulin and fat adaptation. On paper it looks keto, but for me, it always led to overeating and loss of discipline. It’s also one of those foods that’s way too easy to binge.

I replaced it with butter. Just butter. No sugar, no plant toxins, no hidden macros. It’s pure fuel. I’ll use it in coffee, cook with it, or just melt it over meat and eggs. It’s helped me stay deeper in ketosis and dialed in with less effort. Butter doesn’t lie to you.

Why These Swaps Matter

I’m not saying everyone needs to follow this exactly. Do what works for your body and goals. But if you’re running a tight keto approach for strength, aesthetics, and clarity, these swaps are more than just upgrades — they’re optimal.

You don’t need to overthink it. Just stay consistent, cut out what doesn’t serve you, and fuel up on clean, simple foods that support the mission.

Jon Stone
Founder, ironresilience.net
Discipline, Not Genetics

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How a Top Dog Eats: Fueling High Physical Output

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How a Top Dog Eats: Fueling High Physical Output

Eating well is about matching your food to your effort. When you train hard and move a lot, your body demands quality fuel. Here’s a snapshot of what I ate today after a heavy workout and a day packed with walking. I’ll also share lower calorie options for cutting and lean bulking phases to fit different needs.

Meals and Foods

Lunch
4 extra lean turkey burger patties
4 slices Kraft mozzarella singles
2 lobster tails

Snack before supper
2 bags (140g total) pork rinds

Supper
~250g skinless roast chicken breast
1 piece KFC-style fried chicken rib (breaded, skin-on)
220g sliced mushrooms and onions with lime juice
4 butter packets melted into the meal

In coffee
6 butter packets

Total Estimated Macros (High Physical Output)
Calories: ~3,525–3,550 kcal
Protein: ~310g
Fat: ~230g
Carbs: ~23–26g

Today I walked about 36,000 steps at a brisk 3.0 mph pace. Earlier I worked out shoulders, biceps, and legs, so I earned this meal. It’s about matching fuel to effort.

Cutting ~1850 kcal
Lunch:
3 extra lean turkey patties
4 boiled eggs or a lean steak or pork chop (instead of lobster)
Snack:
1 bag pork rinds (70g) or a smaller portion of lean pork chop
Supper:
~150g skinless roast chicken breast
No fried chicken rib
110g sliced mushrooms and onions with lime juice
2 butter packets melted into the meal
In coffee:
3 butter packets
Estimated Macros:
Calories: ~1,850 kcal
Protein: ~160g
Fat: ~110g
Carbs: ~12–15g

Lean Bulking ~2,500 kcal
Lunch:
3 extra lean turkey patties
2 boiled eggs or lean steak or pork chop (instead of lobster)
Snack:
1.5 bags pork rinds (105g) or lean pork chop alternative
Supper:
~200g skinless roast chicken breast
No fried chicken rib
165g sliced mushrooms and onions with lime juice
3 butter packets melted into the meal
In coffee:
4 butter packets
Estimated Macros:
Calories: ~2,500 kcal
Protein: ~230g
Fat: ~160g
Carbs: ~18–20g

Keep in mind, even when cutting I have a high caloric demand due to my activity levels and training volume. Adjust accordingly but don’t starve yourself.

Marcus Aurelius said, ‘You have power over your mind – not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength.’ Every meal is a choice, a small battle won or lost.

The Bushido code teaches that discipline and respect for your craft is everything. Eating this way isn’t just nutrition, it’s honor to the work done in the gym and the goals ahead.

Mike Mentzer reminded us that intensity and quality beat quantity. This isn’t about stuffing yourself but fueling for maximum effect. Precise protein, solid fats, and low carbs — all for a precise mission.

No fluff, no excuses. Just fuel, discipline, and results.

Jon Stone
Founder, ironresilience.net
Discipline, Not Genetics

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IRON RESILIENCE TRAINING LOG — MAY 17, 2025

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IRON RESILIENCE TRAINING LOG — MAY 17, 2025

by Jon Stone

Woke up beat up. Legs were still wrecked from earlier this week. Knees stiff. Elbows sore from trying to rack a barbell in a squat rack that just doesn’t fit right. I had every reason to take it easy today, but I didn’t. I kept the promise. I showed up. Moved weight. Got it done.

I’m running a push, pull, legs routine. Yesterday was rushed, so I only got to hit my pull session. Today I made up what I missed from the last push day. Some shoulder and bicep volume, and even tossed in a bit of leg work. Nothing intense, just enough to keep things moving and stay in rhythm. If my joints calm down, I’ll aim for a proper leg session tomorrow.

Trained fasted this morning. Ate a lot yesterday, so I had the fuel in me. After the session, I’ll have one clean meal — shredded chicken breast, lobster, turkey burgers with cheese. That’s it. Then fasting the rest of the day. Clean food, no garbage. I always feel sharper when I keep it simple.

TODAY’S WORKOUT – PUSH / BICEPS / LEGS (CATCH-UP DAY)

Kept the pace steady. Didn’t chase numbers, just chased effort.

  • Seated Barbell Press: 15, 12, 2, 13
  • Barbell Curl: 12, 12, 12, 2
  • Lateral Dumbbell Raise: 15, 6, 12
  • Dumbbell Hammer Curl: 12, 5, 12, 12
  • Dumbbell Concentration Curl: 15, 8, 12
  • Hack Squat Machine: 12, 12
  • Leg Extension Machine: 12, 12, 12, 12
  • Seated Leg Curl Machine: 15, 15, 15, 15
  • Rear Delt Machine Fly: 10, 10, 10
  • Hanging Leg Raise: 20, 20, 20, 20

Nothing fancy. Just work.

YESTERDAY’S PULL DAY

Didn’t have much time so I focused on quality and volume.

  • Barbell Row: 8, 9, 6, 12
  • Barbell Shrug: 5, 5, 12
  • Pull Up: 12, 12, 12
  • Lat Pulldown: 12, 12, 12
  • Close-Grip Underhand Lat Pulldown: 12, 12, 12
  • Seated Cable Row: 10, 10, 10, 10
  • Straight-Arm Cable Pushdown: 12, 12, 12

THURSDAY’S PUSH DAY

Solid pressing session. Just ran out of gas and missed a few shoulder sets.

  • Flat Barbell Bench Press: 12, 5, 6, 12
  • Close Grip Barbell Bench Press: 8, 8, 8
  • Incline Dumbbell Bench to Flyes: 12, 12, 12, 12
  • Barbell Overhead Tricep Extensions: 12, 12, 12
  • Cable Pushdowns: 12, 12, 12, 12
  • Cable Flyes: 12, 12, 12, 12
  • Lateral Dumbbell Raise: 12, 12, 12
  • Dumbbell Shrugs: 12, 12, 12

FINAL THOUGHTS

I’m not here to impress anyone. I just don’t want to let myself down.

Some days feel heavy. Some days hurt. But showing up means something.

I’m not perfect — just consistent.

Trained fasted, ate clean, kept my mind clear.

Not chasing greatness. Just trying to live with discipline, one session at a time.

Not every day is about being a beast. Some days are about showing up when it’s hard. That’s what builds resilience.

— Jon Stone

Founder, ironresilience.net
Discipline, Not Genetics

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Fasted Training Didn’t Fit My Life

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Fasted Training Didn’t Fit My Life

By Jon Stone | IronResilience.net

If you’ve ever tried fasted training, you know it’s not for everyone. I’ve done it off and on for years. Sometimes it worked – if I’d eaten big the night before, if I wasn’t hungry, or if I could eat right after.

But lately? Nah, it just doesn’t fit my life. So I dropped it.

My Daily Grind

I wake up, walk 45 minutes to the gym, train hard for 45 to 60 minutes, then walk another 20 to 30 minutes to work. I’m on my feet for 10 hours straight at work. Sometimes no breaks, no chances to eat. I don’t get a real meal till six or seven hours later, if I’m lucky.

Training fasted with that schedule? That’s not discipline. That’s just self sabotage.

What I Changed

So I changed things up.

Now I eat before I train – not a big breakfast, just enough fuel to get the job done. Eggs, bacon, cheese, butter, fish, or another cut of meat. Coffee with almond milk, butter, salt, and a bit of sugar twin. Sometimes I swap it for my keto whey shake with flaxseed, olive oil, salt, whey, natural peanut butter, and chicory coffee. Other days I mix mashed avocado into Greek yogurt or cottage cheese with whey, sweetener, flaxseed, and almond milk. Sometimes I add peanut butter, butter, or coconut oil for extra fat.

That small change gave me better performance, better mood, and better recovery.

Discipline Means Smart Choices

Discipline isn’t about starving yourself or blindly following trends like fasted workouts. It’s about knowing your workload, your body, your demands, and fueling accordingly.

This isn’t about being hardcore. It’s about being smart. Honest. In control.

That’s what Iron Resilience is built on.

— Jon Stone

Jon Stone
Founder, ironresilience.net
Discipline, Not Genetics

8 Steps to Reclaim Your Life

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8 Steps to Reclaim Your Life

Here are 8 practical suggestions to start taking ownership of your life and reclaim it one step at a time.
This isn’t clown circus shit like rubbing bananas and elf balls on your face at 3AM. It’s the bare, hard basics your dad—or a real top dog—should’ve already drilled into you. No fluff. Just what works.

Here’s why each one matters—and how it transforms you:

1. Make your bed

Start the day with discipline. Navy SEAL Admiral William H. McRaven said it best:
“If you want to change the world, start off by making your bed.”
It sets a tone of control and accountability. You did something productive before most people even woke up.

2. Keep your room clean

Environment shapes mindset. A messy room reflects a cluttered mind. A clean space restores clarity.
A study in Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin found people with tidy living spaces had lower stress and better mental health. The outside mirrors the inside.

3. Brush & shower daily

Not for vanity—this is about basic self-respect. When you look clean, you feel clean.
It’s a daily ritual that reinforces worth and routine. Neglect it, and decay sets in.
Take care of yourself like someone who matters.

4. Cook at home

The fork is a weapon—or a leash. If you’re eating garbage from a box or a drive-thru, you’re handing over control of your health, discipline, and wallet.
Cooking teaches planning, patience, and pride. Every meal is a vote for your future self.

5. Love Mondays

Most people hate Mondays because they hate their life. That’s not the day’s fault—it’s the mindset.
Reclaim Monday as your reset. Eric Thomas nailed it: “Thank God it’s Monday.”
Winners attack the week while others hit snooze.

6. Spend less time online

Your mind wasn’t built for the digital dopamine loop. Endless scrolling trains you to crave distraction and avoid discomfort.
Penn research shows that limiting social media cuts anxiety and depression.
Use the internet like a tool, not like a drug.

7. Eat clean, walk, run, lift

Your body reflects your choices. Movement fuels energy, confidence, and testosterone.
Jocko said it best: “Discipline equals freedom.”
You don’t need a perfect plan. Just move. And move often.

8. Drop drugs & alcohol

If it numbs you, it owns you.
Real strength is staring down stress, boredom, or pain without needing a crutch. Sobriety sharpens your edge.
You don’t need to be perfect—you just need to be in control.

Together, these habits are a blueprint for self-mastery.
They’re not glamorous. They’re not trending. But they work. They anchor your identity and momentum.

Start today. Reclaim your power—one clean room, one workout, one cooked meal at a time.

– Jon Stone
Founder, ironresilience.net
Discipline, Not Genetics

Learn to Love Mondays

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Learn to Love Mondays

By Jon Stone | Iron Resilience

Everybody out there seems to hate Mondays.
Sunday night, they’re doomfisting their semi-chub to Riley Reid, dreading the morning alarm.
“Another day in the cage,” they think.
Trapped in a job they hate.
A body they hate.
A life they resent.

Me?
I love Mondays.

I love a fresh start.
A full week to outwork, outlift, and out-discipline the average man.
I don’t have an easy life.
I still punch a regular 9 to 5.
Got a boss. Got a time clock. Got a 30-minute lunch like everyone else.

But I treat every single day like it’s Monday—and I thrive on it.

Because Monday is where men are made.
It’s a clean slate. A reset button.
It’s when I execute the plans I laid out over the weekend and push harder than I did the week before.
You want to build discipline? Start by loving the thing everyone else hates.

You want to win? Then start by showing up while others are snoozing.
Treat every day like it’s Monday.
And treat Monday like it’s your New Year’s Day—another chance to level up.

My Morning – Thursday, May 15, 2025

  • Woke up at 7 AM. Took 30 minutes to relax and plan the attack.
  • Got up at 7:30. Got dressed. Put laundry on. Meal prepped 4 days’ worth of fuel, plus breakfast.
  • Made my Keto Power Shake—lightyears ahead of that overpriced, sugar-slammed clown piss the average guy drinks.

Keto Whey Shake:
– 1 scoop whey
– 1 tsp milled flaxseed
– 1 tsp olive oil
– 1/8 tsp Himalayan pink salt
– 1 cup unsweetened almond milk
– 1 tsp chicory coffee
– Mixed the rest in water

No sugar. No crash. No gut-busting chemicals. Just clean fat, clean protein, minerals, fiber, and grit.
Try it before your next lift and tell me it’s not better than some syrupy, caffeinated clown juice in a shiny can.

  • Ate eggs and steak.
  • Walked 45 minutes to the gym.
  • Hit a push session. Set a new bench PR.

My Push Day Workout

Flat Barbell Bench Press
230 lbs x 12
245 lbs x 5
240 lbs x 6
235 lbs x 12

Close Grip Barbell Bench Press
225 lbs x 8 (x3 sets)

Incline Dumbbell Bench to Flyes
80 lbs x 12
70 lbs x 12
60 lbs x 12 (x2 sets)

Barbell Overhead Tricep Extensions
90 lbs x 12
80 lbs x 12
70 lbs x 12

Cable Pushdowns
195 lbs x 12 (x4 sets)

Cable Flyes
60 lbs x 12 (x4 sets)

Lateral Dumbbell Raise
40 lbs x 12
30 lbs x 12
25 lbs x 12

Dumbbell Shrugs
100 lbs x 12 (x3 sets)

Then I walked to work and knocked out 35,000 steps.
No days off. No excuses. Just execution.

Jon Stone
Founder, https://ironresilience.net
Discipline, Not Genetics

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