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Don’t Ask Me How I Train If You’re Not Willing to Suffer

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Don’t Ask Me How I Train If You’re Not Willing to Suffer

By Jon Stone | Iron Resilience

I don’t train for fun. I don’t eat for taste. I don’t show up to the gym to catch up with you, and I’m not here to motivate anyone. I’m here for war.

So if you’re the type of guy who keeps asking how I train, what I eat, or if we can “hit a workout together”—but you never listen, never apply, and keep talking the same weak talk—you need to hear this:

Stop wasting both our time.

You’re Not Serious

Let’s get one thing straight. If you were serious, you wouldn’t be asking questions every week like this is a casual hobby. You’d be too busy doing the work. But you’re not looking for answers—you’re looking for validation. You want a shortcut, a secret, a buddy to hold your hand through discomfort.

There is no shortcut.
There is no buddy system.
And I’m not your mentor.

I Train Alone for a Reason

I don’t do gym partners. I don’t do group preps. This isn’t a field trip. My training is private, painful, and precise. I walk 45 minutes to the gym fasted, hit heavy compound lifts until the bar bends, and walk 20 minutes to work while my legs shake. That’s not a workout. That’s a ritual. That’s suffering, by design.

So when you say, “We should train together,” what you mean is, “I want to slow you down, talk too much, and take it easy when things get hard.”

No thanks. Find someone else.

I Already Gave You the Blueprint

I’ve told you what to eat. I’ve told you how I train. I’ve even warned you it’s not for average men. But you keep coming back like I’m going to change my answer.

“That sounds like too much protein.”
“I need my carbs though.”
“I don’t want to overtrain.”

Shut up. You’re not overtraining—you’re underliving.

If you didn’t follow the first thing I told you, don’t ask me for the second. I’m not here to repeat myself to guys who can’t even follow step one. You’re not serious. You’re just addicted to conversation, not transformation.

You Want What I Have Without Doing What I Did

You want discipline, but you don’t want sacrifice. You want muscle, but you don’t want pain. You want answers, but you ignore the hard ones.

You want what I built, but you don’t want to suffer for it.

That’s not how Iron Resilience works.
This isn’t cosmetic. It’s combat.
Every meal, every rep, every cold shower and early morning walk is a bulletproof layer over the soul.

Here’s What You Can Do Instead

  • Stop talking. Start doing.
  • Stop asking. Start applying.
  • Stop trying to join my path. Find your own.

And if you ever decide you’re ready to suffer, really suffer—then suffer alone. Bleed under the barbell. Cramp on the stair climber. Train fasted, train angry, and do it again tomorrow.

Until then, don’t ask me how I train. You don’t want the real answer.

Iron Resilience is earned in solitude.
And the price is pain.

— Jon Stone

Internal Confidence vs. External Reward

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Internal Confidence vs. External Reward

Internal confidence is built from within. It’s self-generated, rooted in earned pride, discipline, and resilience. You don’t need applause. You don’t chase likes, compliments, or validation. You know what you are because you’ve suffered, struggled, and shown up anyway. This is confidence forged in silence—built through pain, repetition, and perseverance.

External reward, on the other hand, is a performance for the crowd. It’s praise, status, attention, money, trophies. There’s nothing inherently wrong with it—it can fuel you for a while. But it’s fleeting. If your self-worth hinges on applause, you’re always dancing for someone else’s approval. The moment the crowd turns or stops clapping, you crumble.

Iron Resilience is about internal confidence.

  • You train hard, not for admiration, but because you don’t want to be weak.
  • You eat clean, not for aesthetics, but because your mission demands fuel, not indulgence.
  • You endure hardship, not for bragging rights, but because you must—because it’s who you are.

External reward is the shadow. Internal confidence is the flame.

In a world addicted to validation, be the man who validates himself. When you operate from internal confidence, rewards may come—but they don’t own you. You could lose everything external and still walk tall, because your foundation isn’t for sale.

Doing It for the Man in the Mirror

Real transformation isn’t about chasing clout or empty validation. It’s about becoming the man you know you’re capable of being—through relentless effort, sweat, and uncompromising focus.

Forget excuses. Forget sympathy. And forget begging for anyone’s approval.

True power comes from within. External rewards? They rot and fade away. But the strength you build inside? That lasts forever.

Prepare Alone, Dominate Everywhere

Confidence is earned in solitude, away from the spotlight.

The grind—the early mornings, the hunger, the relentless work—is where self-respect is forged.

When you push yourself in silence, you build a foundation that no applause can shake and no criticism can break.

The rewards you chase should never be trophies or compliments—they should be the unshakable belief in your own worth and capability.

Women Are Superficial and Fickle

There’s a classic cycle that proves how superficial and fickle women can be. A skinny guy sees his crush with a muscular guy and decides to get jacked to win her over. Months later, he sees her again—and now her boyfriend is skinny.

Women often respond to the version of you they want or expect, not the real you. They chase what’s trendy or convenient, not what’s genuine. This is why trying to change yourself just to win approval is a losing game.

Women ignored the obese version and the muscular version alike. The lesson? External changes won’t guarantee external rewards.

Own who you are. The right people will recognize your internal confidence, not just your external appearance.

Iron Resilience: Walk Like You Don’t Need Applause

Here’s the truth:

External reward is a leash.

Internal confidence is a weapon.

You’re not here to beg. You’re here to build.

Iron Resilience means becoming the man who walks alone, talks less, and lifts heavier.

You don’t need eyes on you to put in the work.

You don’t need praise to rise at 5 a.m.

You do it because you’ve got a mission.

Because the man in the mirror doesn’t settle.

Build from Within. Let the World Catch Up.

This is the Iron Resilience code:

  • Train in silence.
  • Eat for performance.
  • Suffer on purpose.
  • Build internal fire so hot, no external storm can shake it.

Be the man with internal confidence.

Because when the applause stops, only you remain.

Jon Stone
Founder, ironresilience.net
Discipline, Not Genetics

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Discipline Over Dopamine: Why Fun is the Enemy and Dirty Bulking is a Lie

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Discipline Over Dopamine: Why Fun is the Enemy and Dirty Bulking is a Lie

By Jon Stone | Iron Resilience

The Dirty Truth

You don’t need motivation. You need a mirror and the balls to admit you’ve been soft. The fitness world is full of dopamine-chasing cowards looking for hacks, shortcuts, and comfort. If it’s fun and easy, it’s probably useless. Results come from pain, boredom, and sacrifice.

You think discipline is waking up at 6 AM for a jog with a podcast and protein bar? That’s lifestyle fluff. Real discipline is forcing down another plate of dry steak and eggs when you’re already full, walking an hour on empty just to get to the gym, and lifting until your joints scream. Not because you love it. Because you demand results.

Hard Work is Not Meant to Feel Good

Eating clean sucks. Being in a deficit is draining. Lifting heavy when you’re already sore is torture. But the work gets done anyway.

No one said this was supposed to feel good. It’s supposed to feel like war.

Fun is for the weak. Discipline is doing what you hate like it means nothing.

Shoving down your cravings, shutting off your comfort reflex, brushing your teeth, walking your steps, showering when you’re dead tired, and still hitting the iron with intention. That’s what separates the disciplined from the delusional.

Dirty Bulking is the Coward’s Escape

Let’s talk about the lie everyone loves: “I’m bulking.”

Translation? You’re binge-eating garbage and telling yourself it’s muscle.

Dirty bulking is easy. Shovel food down, lift a bit, and pretend it’s all going to turn into gains. You’ll cut later, right?

Too bad reality doesn’t play along. Six months of that behavior leads to 2–3 years of struggle. You’re not bulking. You’re running. And now you need a search party to find your dick and balls under the fat.

What you call a “bulk phase” is just your addiction to dopamine disguised as strategy.

The Cost of Delusion

You bulked your way out of discipline.
You buried your hunger cues.
You inflated your ego with every bite.

And now you’re left with man tits, low energy, and a wardrobe full of lies.

Cutting through that mess takes real suffering. You don’t just undo months of comfort with a few weeks of salads and cardio. This is where 99% quit. They wanted results, not reality.

But you? If you’re still here, you’re not them.

Fun is a Trap

Comfort is the great lie of our time. People think if you love your workouts, if you enjoy every bite, if your training is always engaging, then you’re doing it right.

No. You’re doing it easy.

The right way is often repetitive. Monotonous. Brutal. Real training is showing up when you don’t want to. Real dieting is saying no when everything in you screams yes. And real life? It’s what you build when you stop chasing pleasure and start living with purpose.

No Shortcut Lasts Forever

People will try every shortcut in the book—keto, fasting, carb cycling, pills, powders, even injections. And some of them work. Temporarily.

But it all circles back to diet and exercise.

If you want to make it a lifestyle, not a phase, you’ll have to accept the truth: discipline over dopamine, consistency over excitement, and effort over ease. No matter what you take or try, real results still demand real work.

The Biggest Flex

The biggest flex isn’t your PR. It isn’t your abs. It isn’t your follower count.

The biggest flex is maintaining your physical youth while watching everyone else around you get old.

While they slump into chairs and sugar comas, you’re out walking laps in the heat with a gallon jug and a steel spine. While they reminisce about their prime, you’re living it—again and again.

This is the power of discipline. This is the reward for the pain. You didn’t lose time. You reclaimed it.

The Iron Resilience Way

We don’t dirty bulk. We don’t binge and blame.

We eat with intention, even if the food tastes like cardboard.
We train through pain, fatigue, and boredom.
We walk with blisters. We lift with fury. We rest just enough to go again.

We don’t chase dopamine. We chase discipline.

Iron Resilience isn’t about aesthetics. It’s about identity.

You become who you are by walking through the fire, not around it.

Stop Bulking. Start Becoming.

Burn the bulking phase. Build the war path.

Stop lying to yourself. Start living by code.

Results cost pain. Pay in full.

Bonus Points from the Field

As much as I believe in balance and not cutting out entire food groups, there are certain things I personally avoid entirely—never “in moderation.”

  1. Palm oil & refined oils — Never in my kitchen. Restaurants might use them, and that’s fine once in a while. But not at home.
  2. Instant noodles — Maggi, ramen, etc. Not food. Just addiction.
  3. Cheese, peanut butter, yogurt, most dairy, nuts, and butter — These make me soft, bloated, and sluggish. Out. (I only use these in moderation and where my calorie intake is high enough to support my metabolism and activity, but I don’t recommend it for everyone—especially since I’m doing keto.)
  4. Sugar, processed grains, processed foods, fast foods, and junk — They’re poison for performance and longevity.
  5. Seed oils — Avoid these inflammatory nightmares whenever possible.

Real Talk on Lifestyle

Switch your diet to strictly eating whole foods and watch what happens — not just to your weight but to your energy levels.

Unpopular opinion: Buying groceries is not cheaper than eating out when you’re a single person. But the point isn’t cost. It’s control.

I hate talking about weight loss with some people. Everyone’s body is different, sure—but some suggestions are insane. Let’s just get real for a second:

You can’t just eat whatever you want after 30.

Kids are naturally active — playing outside, running, standing, burning sugar fast. Adults aren’t. Jobs and lifestyle trap you in sitting patterns, and the sugar just settles. Nearly all American food is sugar-laced trash, slowly killing most people.

When Monday comes, most people are already making excuses.

You’re not most people.

You don’t wait for motivation. You build momentum.
You don’t chase comfort. You chase progress.

This week, show yourself what discipline really looks like.

Get up. Lock in. Move.

The Best “Weight Loss Drugs” on the Market

  • 10k steps a day
  • No alcohol
  • Restful sleep
  • Whole foods only
  • Weight training
  • High protein diet
  • Stress management

Don’t do cardio to lose weight. Do cardio to increase energy, sharpen your mind, and level up your life.

If you want real results, embrace the hard path. The easy road is full of lies. Discipline is your weapon. Use it.

Jon Stone
Founder, ironresilience.net
Discipline, Not Genetics

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Training Log – Wednesday, May 21, 2025

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Training Log – Wednesday, May 21, 2025

Overview

I trained for 80 minutes today. Everything was rest-pause style, kept the intensity high. Walked to the gym (45 minutes), trained, then walked to work.

Session Details

  • Style: Rest-pause throughout
  • Focus: Legs + Core
  • Cardio: 30 minutes stationary bike post-workout
  • Condition: Low-carb, fully keto-adapted

Workout Summary

  • Barbell Squat
    4 sets × 2–15 reps
    Top set: 15 reps at a high load
  • Dumbbell Step-Ups
    3 sets × 3–6 reps each leg
  • Dumbbell Romanian Deadlift
    3 sets × 8–12 reps
  • Barbell Calf Raise
    3 sets × 12 reps
  • Leg Extension Machine
    4 sets × 12 reps
  • Seated Leg Curl Machine
    4 sets × 6–15 reps
    Top set: 6 reps at a heavy load
  • Hanging Leg Raise
    3 sets × 30 reps
  • Weighted Plank
    1 set × 1:06 duration
  • Weighted Crunch
    1 set × 40 reps
  • Stationary Bike
    30:00 steady-state

Nutrition

Estimated Intake:

  • Calories: ~4000 kcal
  • Protein: ~360g
  • Fat: ~328g
  • Carbohydrates: ~36g (trace)

Food Sources:

  • Pork roast, ground beef, bacon
  • Chicken thighs, pork chops, steak
  • Cheese, Greek yogurt, whey isolate
  • Sausages, cottage cheese
  • Avocado, almond milk, margarine
  • Pecans, flaxseed
  • Spinach, broccoli, bell peppers, onions
  • Keto desserts (homemade)

Reflection

The output was high, and recovery has been solid. With this kind of intake and training volume, body composition keeps shifting in the right direction. Enough protein to support muscle. Enough fat to stabilize hormones. Carbs low enough to stay fat-adapted and lean.

Nothing needs changing yet. But I’ll adjust if needed:

  • If fat loss stalls, I’ll trim fats slightly
  • If performance drops, I’ll add a small clean refeed
  • If sleep gets choppy, I’ll look at timing and micronutrients

Jon Stone
Founder, ironresilience.net
Discipline, Not Genetics

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How to Be Attractive to Women

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How to Be Attractive to Women

By Jon Stone | Iron Resilience

Attraction isn’t a game. It’s not some trick. You don’t win it by pretending to be someone else. You become attractive by becoming better. Period.

This is for men who are done with the excuses. Men who are ready to take control, get disciplined, and build a presence that turns heads without even trying.

Let’s break it down.

1. Be Physically Imposing

You don’t need to be tall. You need to look like you can handle yourself. Broad shoulders, strong chest, narrow waist, and posture that says ‘I don’t fold under pressure.’

Women notice strength. Not the kind that shows off, but the kind that stands its ground. Silent power speaks loud.

2. Be Financially Self-Reliant

No one’s saying you need a yacht. You just need to be in control of your life. Pay your way, stack your wins, and walk like a man who knows where he’s going.

Money means freedom, and freedom is attractive.

3. Be Aesthetic and Intentional

Keep your face lean. Keep your style clean. Doesn’t mean designer gear, it means you look like you give a damn. Sharp haircut, clear skin, fitted clothes.

Look like a man who has standards.

4. Build a Warrior Physique

Muscle draws eyes because it screams discipline. Every inch you build is earned. Women pick up on that without you having to say a word.

A jacked body says ‘this man doesn’t quit.’

5. Lead With Quiet Confidence

Real confidence isn’t loud. It’s calm. It’s rooted in experience, in hours put in when nobody was watching. You don’t need to flex it, just live it.

When you know who you are, people feel it.

6. Don’t Supplicate or Chase

You’re not a beggar. Don’t orbit women. You are the mission, and she is a potential part of it — not the whole thing.

Never act like you’re lucky to be around her. She’s lucky to meet a man like you.

7. Be Sharp, Not Self-Deprecating

Making people laugh is great. Making yourself the punchline is not. Keep it tight. Keep it teasing. But never lower yourself for attention.

Respect yourself first.

8. Stay Focused on Your World

Be so locked into your grind that she has to catch up to you. You’ve got a body to build, a life to build, a name to build.

A man with momentum doesn’t chase — he attracts.

9. Be Genuinely Unavailable Sometimes

You’re not playing games. You’re just busy doing real things. Miss a message. Delay a reply. Let her wonder a bit.

You’re not ignoring her. You’re investing in your future.

10. Dress Like You Matter

Your appearance is a signal. Wear clothes that fit. Stay clean. Look like someone who values himself.

A man who respects his look is telling the world he respects everything else too.

11. Make the Damn Decision

She doesn’t want a committee. She wants a man who can make the call. Pick the place. Take the lead. Whether it’s dinner or direction, step up.

Masculine energy moves forward. Don’t hesitate.

12. Be a Gentleman in Public, a Savage in Private

Be respectful, be polite, hold the door — but don’t be soft. That primal, dominant side should show up where it counts. She wants both — protection and fire.

Balance matters.

13. Quit Porn, Cut Dopamine, Kill Weak Habits

Porn kills edge. So do junk food, scrolling, and other cheap dopamine. You don’t need fantasy. You need the real fight. The real build.

Keep your hunger sharp.

14. Speak. Say Hi. Take the Shot.

Stop freezing up. Stop building it up in your head. Just say something. Approach. Smile. Be cool. You’re a man — you don’t need permission to show up.

Fear fades. Regret doesn’t.

Final Word

You don’t try to be attractive. You become a man who is.

Build the body. Sharpen the mind. Own your world. And walk like someone who doesn’t need validation — because he’s already earned his own.

You don’t chase women.
You chase purpose — and women chase that.

Jon Stone
Founder, ironresilience.net
Discipline, Not Genetics

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Why I’m a Caveman

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Why I’m a Caveman

Animals don’t have depression. They don’t have girl problems, legal problems, job worries, or bank accounts.

I know I’m on to something when people say, ‘Jon, you eat like a goddamn caveman.’

And they’re right. I do eat like that. Because modern life is broken. There’s nothing left worth dying for anymore. No great wars, no battles, no real conquests.

We need to return to monkey. Seriously.

Modern life is hell. It’s a mouse utopia. A hundred years ago boredom and being fat and lazy was a luxury only the rich could afford. Now? Everybody’s bored, fat, and lazy.

People scroll on their phones all day, trapped in distraction and comfort. We trade real struggle for safety and end up weaker inside and out.

That’s why I live the way I do. Not to impress anyone or because it’s trendy. I want to be free from the cage modern life builds around us.

I don’t always train fasted. I don’t always eat one meal a day. I’m just a guy who knows this world isn’t made for us.

We weren’t built to sit all day, overfed, overstimulated, and spiritually empty.

We were made to move, to hunt, to sweat, to fight, to push ourselves. That’s how you escape the mouse utopia.

If you want to survive this modern hell, you’ve got to reject the easy life. Get back to basics. Become a caveman again—not for show, but for your sanity and strength.

So yeah, call me a caveman. I’ll take that over a domesticated man quietly dying in comfort any day.

Jon Stone
Founder, ironresilience.net
Discipline, Not Genetics

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The Legal Alternative to Meth and Adderall: How to Get Focus and Appetite Suppression Without the Risks

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The Legal Alternative to Meth and Adderall: How to Get Focus and Appetite Suppression Without the Risks

If you’ve ever seen what Adderall or meth can do to your focus and appetite, you know it’s like flipping a switch. Suddenly distractions vanish, hunger dies, and your brain locks in. But those drugs aren’t gifts — they’re traps. Addiction, heart strain, mental breakdowns, and crashes that wreck your life.

Most guys chasing that edge don’t need to destroy themselves to get results. There’s a legal, safer way to get razor-sharp focus and curb your appetite — and stay standing.

Here’s the real deal on the legal stimulant stack that works.

Caffeine — The Classic Powerhouse

Caffeine is the foundation. Between 200 and 400 mg a day wakes your mind and helps shut off hunger. But go over 400 mg and you risk anxiety, jitters, and heart issues. It’s a fine line.

Pair caffeine with L-theanine, an amino acid from tea, to smooth out the buzz and lock in calm focus that lasts.

Nicotine Pouches or Gum — The Underrated Weapon

Nicotine, used right, is one of the strongest legal appetite suppressants and focus boosters out there. Low doses around 1 to 6 mg can kill hunger and sharpen your alertness.

But nicotine’s addictive. Treat it like a tool — not a habit. Use sparingly.

Ephedrine and Pseudoephedrine — The Old School Boost

These are legal but regulated stimulants that have been around for ages. Ephedrine can crank up your energy and suppress appetite hard, but it comes with risks — heart strain, jitters, and tolerance build-up fast. Pseudoephedrine is milder and found in some cold meds, but it can still give a mild stimulant effect.

If you’re thinking about these, be smart, cycle them carefully, and don’t push too far. They’re closer to the effects of Adderall than caffeine or nicotine alone, but not without downsides.

Adaptogens and Nootropics — The Mental Armor

Supplements like Rhodiola Rosea, Theacrine, and Bacopa Monnieri don’t hit hard instantly, but they help reduce fatigue, improve mood, and sharpen cognition over time. They build steady energy without crashing or burning you out.

How to Stack Them for Maximum Effect

Here’s a no-bullshit routine to get serious focus and appetite control:

  • Morning: 200 mg caffeine (coffee or strong tea) plus 200 mg L-theanine
  • Midday: 1–3 mg nicotine pouch if appetite or focus drops
  • Afternoon: Optional 100–200 mg caffeine with L-theanine for another push
  • Daily: Adaptogens like Rhodiola Rosea or Theacrine for steady mental resilience
  • Ephedrine cycles only if you know what you’re doing, sparingly and carefully

This stack is strong, legal, and sustainable. It won’t blast you off like Adderall or meth, but it will get you locked in without wrecking your body.

Final Warning: Don’t Chase Speed

Chasing the rush of meth or Adderall will burn you down. There is no legal substitute that gives you that exact fire — and that’s good. Use these legal stimulants smartly, respect their limits, and build your focus and appetite control over time.

If you want a customized legal stack to dominate your day and control hunger without risking your health, I’m here to help.

Stay sharp, stay disciplined, and keep your edge on your terms.

Jon Stone
Founder, ironresilience.net
Discipline, Not Genetics

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Shredded Over Size: The Iron Resilience Standard

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Shredded Over Size: The Iron Resilience Standard

By Jon Stone
Founder of ironresilience.net
Discipline, Not Genetics

There’s a weird thing that happens when you get lean.

You drop 50 or more pounds of fat, veins start showing up, your jawline comes back, and your pants go from XL to medium. And yet, someone still points at a dude with a beer gut and says ‘he’s stronger than you’.

It’s not hate. It’s just the mindset out there. Big equals strong to most people. Even if that guy’s out of breath walking to the fridge.

The Powerlifter Bubble

Some guys live in this world where lifting is everything. Westside, chalk, five plates, bar bends, and chicken wings after the gym. They call it powerbuilding. They say shredded guys are weak. They love to joke about abs being ‘earned in the kitchen but lost in the squat rack.’

Alright, fair. They lift heavy. But lifting isn’t the same thing as building a body. And most of the time, they’re hiding behind strength numbers so they can keep eating garbage and call it ‘fuel.’

Not all of them, sure. But enough.

Two Different Roads

Let’s break it down. There are two types of lifters.

One trains for discipline, shape, performance, and confidence. He looks like he was carved out of stone.

The other trains to get strong and eat a lot. He’s proud of his lifts but hasn’t seen his jaw since high school.

Both work hard. Only one lives hard.

Why Size Matters to Some Women More Than Leanness

Here’s an important detail that often gets overlooked: many women, especially those raised around big, strong, stocky men—like construction workers, tradesmen, or heavy laborers—actually find bigger, more solid guys more attractive. They see size and bulk as real strength, not just muscle definition.

For them, an 18-inch “fatcep” might feel stronger and more impressive than a 16.5-inch shredded bicep. It’s what they grew up around. Even women who carry extra weight themselves tend to prefer partners who look solid and powerful over lean and shredded.

Skinnyfat guys usually get lost in the middle—neither lean nor truly strong-looking—and that often leaves them invisible in this dynamic.

The Shredded Aesthetic Protocol

Calories: around 2000 a day
Macros: 250g protein, 120-140g fat, under 20g carbs
Meals: OMAD (one meal a day) on work days, two meals on rest days
Style: Ketogenic, fasted training, high volume, dry and shredded

Sample Meals

Workday OMAD:
– 8 oz ribeye
– 3 eggs fried in butter
– Spinach and flaxseed
– Keto chai with almond milk

Rest day meals:
Meal 1: Greek yogurt, whey, almond butter
Meal 2: Bacon, eggs, avocado, sardines

Training: Push Pull Legs – 6 days per week

Day 1 – Push:
Incline DB Press 4×10
DB Shoulder Press 4×12
Lateral Raises 4×20
Dips 3 sets to failure
Overhead Triceps Extensions 3×15

Day 2 – Pull:
Pullups 4×8
Barbell Rows 4×10
Face Pulls 3×20
EZ Bar Curl 4×12
Hammer Curls 3×10

Day 3 – Legs:
Front Squat 4×8
Romanian Deadlift 4×10
Walking Lunges 3×15
Hamstring Curls 3×20
Calf Raises 4×20

Days 4-6: Repeat with variation
Add incline bench, Arnold press, rack pulls, hack squats etc.

Cardio: 45-60 minutes fasted walking daily
Optional: 2x per week HIIT (20 mins)

The Dirty Bulk Big Boy Setup

He’s not lazy. He’s in the gym. He moves weight. But he also eats like he’s bulking year-round. And yeah, he’s strong. But he’s tired all the time. Says cardio kills gains. And the only lines he has are in his forehead.

Calories: 3500 to 4000
Macros: 220g protein, 250-300g fat, under 20g carbs
Meals: 6 to 8 meals a day
Style: Dirty keto, strongman fuel, always eating

Sample Meals

Meal 1: 4 eggs, cheese, bacon, sausage, butter coffee
Meal 2: Ground beef, margarine, cheddar, bell peppers
Meal 3: Whey shake with almond butter
Meal 4: Chicken thighs, mayo, broccoli with melted cheese
Snacks: Hot dogs, pork rinds, cottage cheese, keto pudding

Training: 4-Day Westside Split

Day 1 – Upper Max Effort:
Barbell Bench 5×5
Weighted Dips 4×10
DB Rows 4×10
Seated Overhead Press 3×10
Rope Extensions 3×15

Day 2 – Lower Max Effort:
Deadlifts 5×3
Box Squats 4×6
Step-Ups 3×10
Hamstring Curls 3×15
Calf Raises 4×20

Day 3 – Upper Speed:
Speed Bench 8×3
Chin-Ups 4×10
Incline DB Press 3×12
Lateral Raises 4×20
Close-Grip Press 3×10

Day 4 – Lower Speed:
Speed Squats 8×2
Power Cleans 3×5
RDLs 4×10
Glute Ham Raises 3×8
Tibialis Raises 3×20

Cardio: 15k steps minimum on active days

What Do You Want to Be?

You can be big. You can be strong. You can even be both. But if you’re not shredded, you’re not finished.

You don’t have to do it like everyone else. But if you want the body, the clarity, and the power that doesn’t fade when the barbell is gone, you’ve got to take the harder road.

Get lean. Get dry. Get real.

That’s Iron Resilience.

Jon Stone
Founder, ironresilience.net
Discipline, Not Genetics

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Why I Swapped Greek Yogurt for Cottage Cheese and Peanut Butter for Butter on Keto

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Why I Swapped Greek Yogurt for Cottage Cheese and Peanut Butter for Butter on Keto

by Jon Stone

In ketogenic bodybuilding, the small things add up. You might think you’re doing everything right, but some foods that look clean on the surface can quietly hold you back. I’m not here to preach or sell a one-size-fits-all plan. This is just what I’ve learned through trial, error, and real-world discipline. If you’re running a strict keto system for physique and performance, these are the swaps that made a real difference for me.

Greek Yogurt vs Cottage Cheese

Greek yogurt is popular for a reason. It’s high in protein and easy to find. But even the plain, unsweetened versions still have a surprising amount of carbs from lactose. I found it spiked my cravings and left me feeling less sharp over time. For someone doing standard low-carb, it might be fine. But for strict keto with a focus on body comp and mental clarity, it’s not ideal.

I swapped in full-fat cottage cheese instead. It’s lower in carbs, higher in protein per calorie, and easier on my digestion. It also holds me over longer and doesn’t trigger the same hunger rebounds. It’s not fancy, but it does the job.

Peanut Butter vs Butter

Peanut butter is another food that gets overhyped. Yeah, it has fat and protein. But it also comes with omega-6s, lectins, and just enough carbs to mess with insulin and fat adaptation. On paper it looks keto, but for me, it always led to overeating and loss of discipline. It’s also one of those foods that’s way too easy to binge.

I replaced it with butter. Just butter. No sugar, no plant toxins, no hidden macros. It’s pure fuel. I’ll use it in coffee, cook with it, or just melt it over meat and eggs. It’s helped me stay deeper in ketosis and dialed in with less effort. Butter doesn’t lie to you.

Why These Swaps Matter

I’m not saying everyone needs to follow this exactly. Do what works for your body and goals. But if you’re running a tight keto approach for strength, aesthetics, and clarity, these swaps are more than just upgrades — they’re optimal.

You don’t need to overthink it. Just stay consistent, cut out what doesn’t serve you, and fuel up on clean, simple foods that support the mission.

Jon Stone
Founder, ironresilience.net
Discipline, Not Genetics

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IRON RESILIENCE TRAINING LOG — MAY 17, 2025

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IRON RESILIENCE TRAINING LOG — MAY 17, 2025

by Jon Stone

Woke up beat up. Legs were still wrecked from earlier this week. Knees stiff. Elbows sore from trying to rack a barbell in a squat rack that just doesn’t fit right. I had every reason to take it easy today, but I didn’t. I kept the promise. I showed up. Moved weight. Got it done.

I’m running a push, pull, legs routine. Yesterday was rushed, so I only got to hit my pull session. Today I made up what I missed from the last push day. Some shoulder and bicep volume, and even tossed in a bit of leg work. Nothing intense, just enough to keep things moving and stay in rhythm. If my joints calm down, I’ll aim for a proper leg session tomorrow.

Trained fasted this morning. Ate a lot yesterday, so I had the fuel in me. After the session, I’ll have one clean meal — shredded chicken breast, lobster, turkey burgers with cheese. That’s it. Then fasting the rest of the day. Clean food, no garbage. I always feel sharper when I keep it simple.

TODAY’S WORKOUT – PUSH / BICEPS / LEGS (CATCH-UP DAY)

Kept the pace steady. Didn’t chase numbers, just chased effort.

  • Seated Barbell Press: 15, 12, 2, 13
  • Barbell Curl: 12, 12, 12, 2
  • Lateral Dumbbell Raise: 15, 6, 12
  • Dumbbell Hammer Curl: 12, 5, 12, 12
  • Dumbbell Concentration Curl: 15, 8, 12
  • Hack Squat Machine: 12, 12
  • Leg Extension Machine: 12, 12, 12, 12
  • Seated Leg Curl Machine: 15, 15, 15, 15
  • Rear Delt Machine Fly: 10, 10, 10
  • Hanging Leg Raise: 20, 20, 20, 20

Nothing fancy. Just work.

YESTERDAY’S PULL DAY

Didn’t have much time so I focused on quality and volume.

  • Barbell Row: 8, 9, 6, 12
  • Barbell Shrug: 5, 5, 12
  • Pull Up: 12, 12, 12
  • Lat Pulldown: 12, 12, 12
  • Close-Grip Underhand Lat Pulldown: 12, 12, 12
  • Seated Cable Row: 10, 10, 10, 10
  • Straight-Arm Cable Pushdown: 12, 12, 12

THURSDAY’S PUSH DAY

Solid pressing session. Just ran out of gas and missed a few shoulder sets.

  • Flat Barbell Bench Press: 12, 5, 6, 12
  • Close Grip Barbell Bench Press: 8, 8, 8
  • Incline Dumbbell Bench to Flyes: 12, 12, 12, 12
  • Barbell Overhead Tricep Extensions: 12, 12, 12
  • Cable Pushdowns: 12, 12, 12, 12
  • Cable Flyes: 12, 12, 12, 12
  • Lateral Dumbbell Raise: 12, 12, 12
  • Dumbbell Shrugs: 12, 12, 12

FINAL THOUGHTS

I’m not here to impress anyone. I just don’t want to let myself down.

Some days feel heavy. Some days hurt. But showing up means something.

I’m not perfect — just consistent.

Trained fasted, ate clean, kept my mind clear.

Not chasing greatness. Just trying to live with discipline, one session at a time.

Not every day is about being a beast. Some days are about showing up when it’s hard. That’s what builds resilience.

— Jon Stone

Founder, ironresilience.net
Discipline, Not Genetics

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